I just think sometimes people need a hand up. Sometimes the weak cant help themselves and they need someone who is in a stronger position to speak for them. - if you have no standing or financial backing things are harder to make a change. Something peculiar I have noticed lately is that there is very much a 'blame the victim' mentality for people who have been given a bum deal. - but I guess that all depends on how much the 'victim' wants - but is there not a basic standard of living and opportunity that all people are entitled too which is not given to them? - people who are unnoticed, forgotten or deemed to weak to be taken notice of seem to be left out - and thats because 'survival of the fittest' seems to be what people believe these days - I dont know I could be wrong... its just something I feel.
Just my thoughts.
i think there's a difference between "blaming the victim" and holding people responsible for their own lives
to blame them is to say whatever bad thing happened to them was their fault or that they somehow deserved it
obviously that kind of thinking is misguided
but it seems just as misguided to think that, just because something bad happened to someone (and it wasn't their fault), they should now no longer be accountable for anything else that happens in their life
to use my overly simplistic driving analogy once again:
that would be like a good driver making his way safely down the highway, and suddenly, out of nowhere, a drunk driver swerves across the divider and crashes into them
it's not our driver's fault
it was horrible thing, to be sure
but once our driver gets back behind the wheel, we still expect him to follow the rules of the road - he doesn't get a free pass to just drive however he wants and wreck into other drivers
and it would be really sad if he just sits home and doesn't ever get back into his car again - but frankly, that's his choice to do so
he could just as well get back out there and drive his own car
sure, it would be scary - but it might also be alot better for him than relying on other people to drive him where he needs to go