forksandspoons
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I haven't posted here in a while, but I really don't know where else to go.
Ive had the same job on a golf course for the past 5 years. I contacted my boss (who is usually a very nice person) 3 weeks ago, and asked to get back on the schedule. He told me that he would try to "squeeze me in, and get me back in the summer".
I had not heard anything from him, so I called him up again today, and he got angry, which is very uncharacteristic of him. He told me that I was annoying him with my persistence and that he would get me back. I protested, that it has been 3 weeks and I would like some sort of time frame that is not vague like "summer"
Then he went off. He told me that I gave the middle finger to a 9 year old kid two years ago. My jaw literally dropped. I was stunned. I denied it. He said that he saw it happen. (Honestly, it didn't, I'd have no reason to lie here) The worst part, is that he told me that members have complained that they don't feel comfortable approaching me.
As a person with SA, I have very hard days there were I just try to blend in to the walls and avoid everyone altogether. I certainly have a hard time approaching any of them. Of course no one knows or understands this.
I called him back. He told me again that I flipped off a 9 year old, but this time he said the kid came to him in the pro shop and told him. LIAR!
He also complained about a "fight" I had with my superior a few years ago. Long story short, I was given a cash tip, my superior told me to give it to him. I asked why. He flipped out and started screaming at me about being disrespectful. This guy is notorious for being a MAJOR *******, but people like him because hes funny. So they sided with him and blamed me.
So basically, they all hate me and think I am an evil person, which is totally false. I pride myself on being a good person. Females often see me as the "nice guy". I always try to treat people right. It hurts to know that there is a group out there that thinks Im an evil child hating monster that fights with co-workers because of rumors and gossip going around behind my back for 2 years without ANYONE SAYING ANYTHING. Not exactly what I need for my low self esteem.
This is one of the few places I had left where I felt I belonged, or was accepted, which is why I am so upset.
Ive had the same job on a golf course for the past 5 years. I contacted my boss (who is usually a very nice person) 3 weeks ago, and asked to get back on the schedule. He told me that he would try to "squeeze me in, and get me back in the summer".
I had not heard anything from him, so I called him up again today, and he got angry, which is very uncharacteristic of him. He told me that I was annoying him with my persistence and that he would get me back. I protested, that it has been 3 weeks and I would like some sort of time frame that is not vague like "summer"
Then he went off. He told me that I gave the middle finger to a 9 year old kid two years ago. My jaw literally dropped. I was stunned. I denied it. He said that he saw it happen. (Honestly, it didn't, I'd have no reason to lie here) The worst part, is that he told me that members have complained that they don't feel comfortable approaching me.
As a person with SA, I have very hard days there were I just try to blend in to the walls and avoid everyone altogether. I certainly have a hard time approaching any of them. Of course no one knows or understands this.
I called him back. He told me again that I flipped off a 9 year old, but this time he said the kid came to him in the pro shop and told him. LIAR!
He also complained about a "fight" I had with my superior a few years ago. Long story short, I was given a cash tip, my superior told me to give it to him. I asked why. He flipped out and started screaming at me about being disrespectful. This guy is notorious for being a MAJOR *******, but people like him because hes funny. So they sided with him and blamed me.
So basically, they all hate me and think I am an evil person, which is totally false. I pride myself on being a good person. Females often see me as the "nice guy". I always try to treat people right. It hurts to know that there is a group out there that thinks Im an evil child hating monster that fights with co-workers because of rumors and gossip going around behind my back for 2 years without ANYONE SAYING ANYTHING. Not exactly what I need for my low self esteem.
This is one of the few places I had left where I felt I belonged, or was accepted, which is why I am so upset.
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