Is there a place worth going ?

[Bo592]

Have you ever done this you set around the house and thank you should go somewhere, but where that becomes a problem. I once thought I was afraid of driving then it hit me I am not afraid of driving I am afraid of going around people.That been the reason why I been afraid of getting into a car and making one false reason after anther why I can`t drive today." the gas cost to much" "It to cool out today." just to make you feel better about not driving today. But when you real thank about it where is their really to go? I went down the line and thought about people who drive a lot and the place they normally go and that normally Jobs and friend or family houses. That great but only if you have any friends. But if you have no friends then how do you start out from scratch. Going to a Bar or a club sound good but not really if you are going alone. I saw to many TV show where bar fights break out. Park are fun when the weather is nice. But when it not nice out then you feel close in. Going to stores might be fun but I not really sure if any body goes their to talk and make friends. Are there any trick out there on deciding the right place for you to Go.

 

[Bo592]

I feel finding the right place to go in life is the Key to life. In one place you could feel like a nerd but in the other place you feel popular. I reread over my work and I think you just have to know your personality. Have you ever try to find a place to go basic on your personality? It could change everything about how you apear around people by finding a different group of people to go around.

 

[megalon]

I know what you mean about having nowhere to go. Today the weather isn't too bad and I was thinking it may be the last chance to take my motorcycle out before it gets too cold. I just don't have anywhere to go. All I ever do is go to work and then come back home. I have no friends to do anything with and there aren't many places I'd go to alone.

 

[MrJones]

I really have nowhere to go except class, anywhere else I'd have to go alone, and I can't do it. In the past I went with other people to places where I tried to go alone and it makes so much difference, but now I have no one, so I just go to class and then home.

 

[Pacific_Loner]

In the wilderness?

 

[Nanita]

I sometimes go for a walk in the forest. Or to a farm to chat with horses.
Other than that, I´m not really interested, cuz people are everywhere.

 

[Moa]

I like going to coffee shops with a good book in hand. If you think you wanna talk to someone, there's usually someone to chat with, and if you wanna keep to yourself, just bury your nose in your book.

 

[MikeyC]

There's certainly times where I've wanted to get out of the house but I'f found out that there's simply nowhere for me to go. Or I've wanted to go to some metal shops in Sydney but I don't have the cash for it, so I sit in my room doing nothing.

I would love to go back to some lookouts, overlooking the area I live or some hills and such, but that's something I would do with a girl, not on my own.

If I wasn't working all the time, I would love to take a trip to Melbourne or to Canberra, or out to some national parks around here. Or go even further to Western Australia or up to Queensland. I need to be a multi-millionaire, I reckon.

 

[razzle dazzle rose]

I don't drive. So going anywhere by myself takes a lot of effort 'cause I hate waiting around for the bus, and sometimes it doesn't seem "worth" all the trouble. I would like to just be able to get into my car and go browsing at Target, or get a coffee at Starbucks. Getting out of the house, even just driving, could help clear up my head. I would love to have that option. Driving makes me super anxious though (and I don't even have a car, so...yeah...)

(But really I am just making excuses. I could just go for a walk. Or take the bus somewhere...)

 

[this_portrait]

I go places by myself all the time. It's not really about WHERE to go for me, but rather who to go with. Since I have no one to go with me, I feel out of place going to places alone while all these other people around me are with their friends.

 

[MikeyC]

I don't drive. So going anywhere by myself takes a lot of effort 'cause I hate waiting around for the bus, and sometimes it doesn't seem "worth" all the trouble. I would like to just be able to get into my car and go browsing at Target, or get a coffee at Starbucks. Getting out of the house, even just driving, could help clear up my head. I would love to have that option. Driving makes me super anxious though (and I don't even have a car, so...yeah...)

(But really I am just making excuses. I could just go for a walk. Or take the bus somewhere...)

Before I got my driver's license, I had to take the bus to a shopping mall that would take an hour to get to. Then I got my license and I was so happy that it takes only 10-15 minutes to get there and I didn't have to sit with people on public transport.

Cars are ridiculously expensive to own, but their convenience makes up for it. Well...almost.

If you come visit me, we could go to Target and (something very similar to) Starbucks!