Is it just me?

[MoonBoom]

I don't think I would leave her if this was the case. I know that it's not a very manly thing to say but I find my feelings to be more important than sex (not that I would turn it down).

It's not about being "manly". Perhaps you can find a girl that thinks the same way you do. Feelings and sex don't have to be different things. It's about understanding and respect.
Good luck

 

[peanutsmum]

Ok..here we go... Please don't blast me and call me names because I bring the Bible into this...But... God created sex as a gift and to be enjoyed between a man and his wife, exclusively.

Because of all the porn and sexuality in movies..it's everywhere and it's totally mixing people up and screwing with their heads.

It caused me grief all my adult life until I found out God's views about sex.

 

[Aletheia]

If a woman is interested in you sexually then yes she does want you to think of her sexually. She also wants your respect at the same time. They aren't mutually exclusive.

This. No one likes unrequited love, and no one likes unrequited lust, either.

guy and girl are speaking with one another the guy is staring at the girl's cleavage and she asks him to look her in the face.

It's not the cleavage itself that's the problem, it's that she wants to know that he's listening to what she has to say. Cleavage can keep for desert.

 

[coyote]

sex is like the cherry pie at the end of the meal - it's not the main course

sometimes we're satisfied with just the meat and potatoes

but often, the dinner doesn't seem complete without a little dessert

and sometimes all we really want is slice of pie

this goes for both men AND women

the key to a successful relationship is to agree on the menu

 

[coyote]

...Cleavage can keep for desert.

ha! great minds think alike

 

[Kiwong]

Sex is like a car accident it happens to other people.

 

[Aletheia]

the key to a successful relationship is to agree on the menu

*laughs* Pithily put.

 

[MikeyC]

Because of all the porn and sexuality in movies..it's everywhere and it's totally mixing people up and screwing with their heads.

Too right. I think I'm maybe even more annoyed at sex scenes in movies. Unless it's absolutely pivotal to the plot, keep it away! If I want to watch sex, I'll watch pornography.

Sex is like a car accident it happens to other people.

Haha! This reminds me of that Futurama episode. Fry (eating something delicious): Wow, these are great! They're like sex, except I'm having them!

 

[awkwardamanda]

sex is like the cherry pie at the end of the meal - it's not the main course

Cherry? Really?

 

[Aletheia]

^ *laughs*

 

[Aletheia]

those thrilling writhings are but dim shadows of a union which shall be perfect

people have been getting their kink on in the privacy of their own bedchambers for many hundreds of years

[Reverend Charles, author of The Water Babies] Kingsley's reverence for the human body also led him to treat sex with his wife [Fanny], as a sacramental conduit to God. Married in 1844, the couple called their bed an "altar," referred to intercourse as "communion," and accompanied it with prayers and thanksgiving. Kingsley also claimed that in heaven he and Fanny would be "united [. . .] by some marriage bond, infinitely more perfect than any we can dream of on earth". Kingsley believed that the afterlife was the site of a sexuality beyond ordinary sex. Although prefigured by marital lovemaking, this sexuality was only fully realized in heaven, where spouses would enjoy a heightened mode of eroticism freed from the suspect physicality of earthly intercourse.
-- Charles Barker, Erotic Martyrdom: Kingsley's Sexuality beyond Sex

 

[YellowBird]

I'm so glad I found this post::
I'm on the heteroromantic asexual side,so any remotely anti-sexual opinion I try to express,I expect to get bitchslapped(part of my sa is that i've got one too many unpopular opinions)