So, allow me to ask a question to all of the shy men around here. Is there any chance after 3 casual dates, that you would still be too nervous to kiss your date in a public place?
Yes. And not just in public places, anywhere.
Being afraid to make sexual advances of any type (kissing or more) has led to countless women losing interest in me.
I've been drunk in bed with very attractive women (on more than one occasion!) and still been too afraid to kiss them. It's pretty sad.
These days I realize that If I don't make a move within a couple of dates they'll lose interest, so I try to force myself to do it. It's still terrifying for me though. I think it's mainly the lack of experience that causes the fear. A really bad or awkward first kiss can and will turn a lot of women off too.
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