selon
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.. but I could really use some advice.
For 10 years now I have been in love with a guy that I've seen for 8 days in total (the last time being 6 years ago). He lives in another country and because of money and other issues we couldn't just get together. 5 years ago we confessed our feelings for each other but nothing happened. Then 4 years ago I was supposed to visit him but in the short time interval between him asking me to come visit and the actual visit he got a girlfriend. :kickingmyself: Other guys have been interested in me but even if I liked someone else, it wasn't enough to forget him. I still think about him everyday, and I actually deleted him from linkedin the other day because I couldn't stand 'following' him anymore. Even after all these years I feel so bad that I wasn't important enough for him to just give that new girlfriend a pass. And what's worse, I'm so embarrassed and the more time passes by the worse it gets. I turn red whenever someone asks me about my love life. It's probably not even love anymore but a really weird obsession. How can I get him out of my head??:sad: I really want to move on but how?
For 10 years now I have been in love with a guy that I've seen for 8 days in total (the last time being 6 years ago). He lives in another country and because of money and other issues we couldn't just get together. 5 years ago we confessed our feelings for each other but nothing happened. Then 4 years ago I was supposed to visit him but in the short time interval between him asking me to come visit and the actual visit he got a girlfriend. :kickingmyself: Other guys have been interested in me but even if I liked someone else, it wasn't enough to forget him. I still think about him everyday, and I actually deleted him from linkedin the other day because I couldn't stand 'following' him anymore. Even after all these years I feel so bad that I wasn't important enough for him to just give that new girlfriend a pass. And what's worse, I'm so embarrassed and the more time passes by the worse it gets. I turn red whenever someone asks me about my love life. It's probably not even love anymore but a really weird obsession. How can I get him out of my head??:sad: I really want to move on but how?