I'm pathetic

[WishingICould]

You're lucky! You dodged a bullet. Imagine if he married you! You would be the girl that he would be cheating on with someone else! I feel sorry for his wife. He's pure scum! F' that guy!

Yeah, i guess you're right. For a while i was obsessed with her and looked at her Facebook. Thankfully i can't see any of her profile, only her profile picture. I'd tell myself it's because she's blonde and her family has money and she's popular (which she is). It's only recently that i've tried not to compare myself to her anymore. I used to hate her and think that it wasn't fair that he chose her but i guess there's really no point.

 

[ImNotMyIllness]

Your lucky he chose her! Do you want to be with a guy that cheats on you?! You need to get your priorities in order when choosing a mate. Faithful, honest and caring should be at the top.

You should feel sorry for her. She is in for a lot of pain. If she's lucky, she'll find out about his ways early and divorce his cheating a**. God forbid, they have children together.

 

[WishingICould]

Your lucky he chose her! Do you want to be with a guy that cheats on you?! You need to get your priorities in order when choosing a mate. Faithful, honest and caring should be at the top.

You should feel sorry for her. She is in for a lot of pain. If she's lucky, she'll find out about his ways early and divorce his cheating a**. God forbid, they have children together.

Yeah, part of my knows this but the other part is like "well, at least he's MARRYING her not YOU. Nobody will ever want you.". I also can't stand the thought of him on his wedding day. Makes me feel sick that everybody will be saying congratulations and telling him how great he is. It ticks me off that her family don't know.

 

[selon]

I'm trying to avoid Facebook because i don't want to see his wedding photos when he does get married. I think i might vomit.

Delete him from your friends list!!

 

[WishingICould]

Delete him from your friends list!!

He deleted me ages ago when i told him i didn't want to see him anymore. A mutual friend is going to the wedding though so she'll post photos.

 

[selon]

hmm that does suck.. I deleted "my" stupid guy and also all the friends that we had in common to avoid that. But I wasnt really that close to them so I didnt mind.

 

[WishingICould]

Anyway, this thread is about you not me. I love your avatar.

 

[economist]

how'd u meet him
and did u feel in love with him before meeting him

 

[selon]

how'd u meet him
and did u feel in love with him before meeting him

Well our parents grew up together, so he's the son of a family friend. His family came visiting when I was 16 and they stayed a week at our place. I didn't know that I "loved" him immediately but the last night, after we said goodbye I wanted to cry really really bad. I can't cry usually, even when my mom was really sick (thank god she's ok now!) I couldn't cry.
Two years later I went to his hometown to visit relatives and saw him but only once because I had to much family things going on.
We've been in contact every now and then (though not in the last 3 years) and sometimes when his father called my parents he would tell me that his son complained that I didn't visit them or that I didn't write him. But that is ages ago.. now he's probably oh so happy with his lovely beautiful girlfriend :kickingmyself::

 

[WishingICould]

Well our parents grew up together, so he's the son of a family friend. His family came visiting when I was 16 and they stayed a week at our place. I didn't know that I "loved" him immediately but the last night, after we said goodbye I wanted to cry really really bad. I can't cry usually, even when my mom was really sick (thank god she's ok now!) I couldn't cry.
Two years later I went to his hometown to visit relatives and saw him but only once because I had to much family things going on.
We've been in contact every now and then (though not in the last 3 years) and sometimes when his father called my parents he would tell me that his son complained that I didn't visit them or that I didn't write him. But that is ages ago.. now he's probably oh so happy with his lovely beautiful girlfriend :kickingmyself::

Don't torture yourself by thinking about his girlfriend. She's probably not that great anyway. Also, he probably got with her because she lives where he is so it's easier. It's not because she's "better" than you or anything like that.

 

[selon]

Hope so hihi I don't really care about her that much (I stopped stalking him and his friends on facebook long ago) but whenever my parents say something about him or his family I get so embarrassed and blush like a tomato :blushing::blushing:

 

[WishingICould]

Hope so hihi I don't really care about her that much (I stopped stalking him and his friends on facebook long ago) but whenever my parents say something about him or his family I get so embarrassed and blush like a tomato :blushing::blushing:

You'll get over him eventually if you just carry on with your life and don't think about him too much. I'm trying to do the same thing so we can be losers together.

 

[kilojoule]

My advice very much depends on your age I had a peek at your profile and I see you're a grown up woman and so I will give you advice. IMO as the 'ol saying goes; The best way to get over one guy is to get under another.

Take my advice and don't spend any more time on this guy. He moved on with his life. You can move on with yours. And you're not at all pathetic, your devotion shows your loyalty which is an honourable trait but find someone who deserves it. You'll be fine.

 

[selon]

You'll get over him eventually if you just carry on with your life

Amen to that!! raying:

 

[WishingICould]

Amen to that!! raying:

It's easier said than done, i know. :idontknow:

 

[selon]

My advice very much depends on your age I had a peek at your profile and I see you're a grown up woman and so I will give you advice. IMO as the 'ol saying goes; The best way to get over one guy is to get under another.

hahahaha :applause: ^__^ maybe I'll give that another try!

 

[selon]

I'm still thinking about him ****ING ****!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I've been trying so hard in the last few weeks, and it was going pretty well at first but then I started thinking about him again without realizing it.

Dunno how I'm ever supposed to find someone.