I'm done
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Ubersonic
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Maybe you have a messed up view of what is means to be "manly". Acting tough and wanting sex is a way a lot of guys go about it, but that doesn't make them right. Maybe being true to yourself and going after what you desire is what really makes you "manly"... or just get really big muscles.
kayelle
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Ventrilo said:
What? Everyone is completely different. And I don't mean that in a lovey-dovey we're all unique and wonderful kind of way. i mean we are ALL completely different. And I know that that's what would attract a lot of people to a person, that they're not the same as everyone else. Well, once you're around mature people anyways. Teenagers might all want people to look and act the same, but I think that once you leave school people actually want someone who they find interesting, and not necessarily someone who acts like someone he's not.
Cheer up, you're getting to the better part of life now! This part isn't as sucky as the last few years! I guess you just need to find some self-confidence, just believe in your right to be yourself, and realise that you are just as good of, and in many cases much better than, everyone else around you.
I tell you this, but I have ridiculously bad self-esteem and really bad SA and agoraphobia, so I don't know how reliable my advice is! :lol:
enchantress24
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Ubersonic said:
The good ones?? Men don't want the good ones anymore. I've gotten rejected for being smart, for being inexperienced, for not wanting to sleep around, I consider myself good lookin, go to the gym and try to stay healthy, i dont drink or smoke....yet, my very slutty, dumb friends got guys lined up their doors. I got two fuckin college degrees while some of them are still working at walmart or got no high school diploma, making minimum wage and they got bfs. I've never even been in a real relationship. They all leave me. I guess Im too boring.
Men just prefer submissive bimbos with no self respect.
Dave_McFadden
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Ventrilo said:
enchantress24 said:
Ventrilo said:
enchantress24 said:
Problem solved??
no1
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enchantress24 said:
wow. so many misunderstandings. why do girls and guys blame the opposite sex so much?
though tbh yea women have been pretty deceptive and deceived themselves.
of course guys also have their problems.
and of course this world has it's "problems".
I was always lookin for a good girl but most of the girls were too busy with their "jerks" and "bad boys".
Ventrilotwo
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Yea most do. I consider myself lucky to be a guy because i'm a misanthrope and i hate most people but i definitely hate more guys than girls, although most people wouldn't guess it because i hold girls to a higher standard (which makes me look more critial of them). But i do agree most guys want retarded girls, i personally can't stnad them.
cicada1000
Member
well this is embarassing because most people here seem younger than me, but I am 31 and have only been on 2 dates. (nothing interesting happened!) If you are "done" then I am ancient history. Really tho, don't give up or run away for years like I did. You are still young.
2Crowded
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theblank .... Im sorry about both your friends 
....I dont think sucide is a good answer for any problem one might have...I was just having a bad day when I originaly read this post first off...thats where the non intentional insensitive sarcastic comment on my part came from the other day.
....I dont think sucide is a good answer for any problem one might have...I was just having a bad day when I originaly read this post first off...thats where the non intentional insensitive sarcastic comment on my part came from the other day.
theblank
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2Crowded said:theblank .... Im sorry about both your friends
Thanks and no problem. I have plenty of bad days too where my thoughts go into the darkness.
NYR22
New member
Try online dating. I'm serious. It's the easy way to break the ice with a girl, plus, you already know a little bit about the girl as opposed to if you arbitrarily met someone in a bar or other social scene because you can read her profile and find out more about her. Try talking online with her and if you guys have things in common, ask her for her number. If things don't work out, what have you got to lose?
lyricalliaisons
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Everyone on this forum, except one, I think, is younger than me. I'll be 27 in just over a month & I've still never even been on a date. So, seriously, all you 20 year olds out there should realize how young you are & that there's still plenty of time. If you try to work on your SA now, you won't end up in the same position when you're my age. I WISH I were 20 again. I could go back & actually have a life by the time I'm the age I am now.
AdmiralSirJohn
Member
lyricalliaisons said:
You're not the oldest. I'm 40, and yet I can relate to just about all these kids...