I'm done

[durda_dan]

learn music, nothing can wooo someone like music. doen't matter how old you are, look at Mik jagger, hes ike 700 and i'm sure he is still getting laid more often than matress store trial matress

 

[ventriloone]

i've been meaning to learn piano because i have very long fingers but i don't have time since my major is pretty intensive.

 

[jiujitsu]

I'm 24 and I haven't even really spoken to a girl since around 9th grade. Even then it was hardly conversations. Everyone my age is so out of my league it's pathetic.

I guess I'm saying don't worry. You have 4 years before you're as bad as me and by then I'll be 28 and it'll be exponentially worse. So, just remember there's someone worse than you in the world. 8)

 

[ventriloone]

surprisingly the fact that there's someone worse off in the world doesn't make me feel better. It makes me feel worse in fact...

 

[lonelygirl13]

I'm 20 and I haven't been on a date either. I feel like maybe there is something wrong with me because I have not dated. It's like if I could just date someone I will feel better about myself.

 

[Ventrilo]

Well it's better for a girl, virginity is a virtue for you atleast. . .

 

[Ubersonic]

learn music, nothing can wooo someone like music. doen't matter how old you are, look at Mik jagger, hes ike 700 and i'm sure he is still getting laid more often than matress store trial matress

lol I think money and fame are getting Mick the ladies. Also, I've played in various rock bands and playing guitar doesn't charm the ladies.

 

[freestylemonster]

i'm 20 and i don't plan to give up so soon. maybe in 70 or 80 years

Yes! That's what I like to hear! NEVER EVER give up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Everyone on this forum, except one, I think, is younger than me. I'll be 27 in just over a month & I've still never even been on a date. So, seriously, all you 20 year olds out there should realize how young you are & that there's still plenty of time. If you try to work on your SA now, you won't end up in the same position when you're my age. I WISH I were 20 again. I could go back & actually have a life by the time I'm the age I am now.

You really opened my eyes...I'm 18 and I'm all worried that I'll die alone. I always wish I could go back to being like 5 and try to be more social from the start..BUT you made me realize I still have TONS of time!!

THANKS!

You're not the oldest. I'm 40, and yet I can relate to just about all these kids...

MAN you're not even half way through your life yet! You could get over your SA in like 2 years if you tried hard, then you could go for all the hot single moms!!!

 

[Riiya]

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[Sacrament]

:lol:

 

[Riiya]

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[Argamemnon]

well this is embarassing because most people here seem younger than me, but I am 31 and have only been on 2 dates. (nothing interesting happened!) If you are "done" then I am ancient history. Really tho, don't give up or run away for years like I did. You are still young.

32 and never dated..

 

[Anthony_Afterwit]

Maybe you should find somone you're completely unattracted to and ask her out. If she turns you down who cares. If she says yes you can go out for coffee and then you've been on a date.

 

[Argamemnon]

Maybe you should find somone you're completely unattracted to and ask her out. If she turns you down who cares. If she says yes you can go out for coffee and then you've been on a date.

what will be the benefit of doing that?

 

[Crayzorder]

what will be the benefit of doing that?

1/ You can say you've been on a date. It wouldn't be lieing, now would it? And yo uwill gain experience with women. No one is going to find a soul mate in the first try. Period,

2/ If you continue to date unattractive women your confidence will bloom up, when i was in horrible stages of my anxiety that i couldn't even talk to cute girls, my plan was to talk/date unattractive women and eventually gain enough confidence to begin talking to cute girls that i find attractive. Guess what? It worked, and, i gained a lot of friends along the way. Until i had too move, of course...

3/ Let's you meet new people, unattractive girls have a lot of friends, and not too forget most of them are really nice and generous on the inside. Great way to strive out of depression and SA Anxiety.

These are just three off the top of my head, i completely agree to whoever said try talking/dating to girls you find unattractive.

 

[Crayzorder]

wowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

It's not like im lieing, i revised it too sound alittle less harsh, but its the truth. Have you ever tried something of the such?

 

[GreenDay1994]

I have the same problem, im 17 havent done anything with a girl, never asked one out, its pathetic, people think im gay? wtf im not gay! (not saying being gay is bad or wrong im just not gay)

 

[Anthony_Afterwit]

3/ Let's you meet new people, unattractive girls have a lot of friends, and not too forget most of them are really nice and generous on the inside. Great way to strive out of depression and SA Anxiety.

Yep. Practice on the ugly ones. And some of them could end up a better match for you than the hot ones. Plus you don't have to worry about guys hitting on them all the time.

 

[Ventrilotwo]

seems like a good idea but i doubt i'll do it. For me i'd just end up standing her up because i would get very nervous before (obviously) and then say "well it's not like i liked her anyways" and not go. I know i would do this even if i had the courage to ask out an uggo (which i don't anyways)

 

[Ventrilotwo]

It's funny actually ,i was thinking back over my years and remembering which of my professors were married. Of the male ones in my field only 2/6 were married... Kinda depressing because they're obviously quite wealthy (as being a professor is very good pay) and i thought girls were supposed to flock to money (take offense if you want but it is evolutionary)