I hate people who are optimistic

[coyote]

.....so what you're saying is we're all foxes? ::

that goes without saying

just look at the "post your picture" thread

 

[Deus_Ex_Lemur]

re: thread title: So this is why I hate myself... ::

 

[Richey]

well i think its more the people who rub it in that i take a great offense to in general. i've noticed a theme of really successful people in "career" rubbing it into their friends and families faces of those who aren't a career success just yet. So you did well, great, i'm happy for you, maybe you could give people some of your pearls of wisdom instead of putting people down. sick of gossipy people.

 

[irish_bob]

im never jealous of optimistic and happy people , in fact , im happy for them , i used to be one of them untill my life was destroyed by a joyless hate filled creature , i use enough energy hating this monster that i have nothing left to despise anyone else

 

[Waybuloo]

I'm sure the recession and possibly depression will take care of their attitude

 

[BlackPuma]

the title maybe had to be different ( idd blackpuma), I hate that I not achieve my goals and others make it worse by telling how they learning to be a manager while I even can't work feel like a failure

That I can understand. And it is quite unfair that some have a drastically easier time at finding ways to the, so called, top. But the thing is, you're not a failure. Social phobia is a real though thing to break out of, and depending on the severity it becomes less and less likely to do it on your own. There are many that simply don't have to deal with such levels of anxiety.

However, though; social phobia is not an excuse not to change at all. What I personally needed to make a change, was a push and some tough love. Because I was also convinced that I would never work, and that I'd spend the rest of my life living of my mother's salary. Then people got together and progressively helped me find a social-rehabilitation program. And I hated it, and I still kind of do. There are even days where I just want to quit and never think of it again. But, the thing is that the program works. Getting out there and getting emotionally hurt sometimes, works.

What I'm trying to say is, it's totally fine to be negative sometimes as long as you've got a plan to keep you on track. And if you don't have a plan yet, that's fine too. Take your time finding the right resources (such as motivation (books, games, movies, inspirational poetry, whatever), therapist to help you understand yourself better, ect).

You can't go from socially phobic to successful career man over the course of a week. It's a big change that requires a lot of little steps and small dozes of innovation on your part.

 

[AsTimeBurns]

Find a new doctor who will be sympathetic to your problems.

I'd recommend either one of these:

 

[Illusions]

I'd recommend either one of these:

I'd recommend them both too.

 

[vexatiousmind]

stay away from me with your negative ions, and I will stay away from you with my positive ones.