Moses199
Well-known member
My preconceived theory is that guys who's SA are worst with girls, are more difficult to get gfs, compared to guys who's SA are less with girls. Let me explain why...
I'm a 6'3 athletic looking guy with average looks, but i could never connect enough with a girl for her to be my GF, eventhough i had good social skills/humor (of course i didn't show this personality when around girls, only guys). My SA is just much worst with girls for some reason. I would talk to them but the conversation always felt plain and not interesting because the SA in my head inhibited me from showing my true self. I believe i could never get a GF is because my SA was far worst with them than guys.
Now i come to believe, the only way to counter this is to pick one girl and talk to them for a long period of time (2-3 month), my theory is that eventually i will get comfortable with her after that long time phase. But my fear is that she will get bored of me and stop talking to me before that phase finishes. What you guys think?
I'm a 6'3 athletic looking guy with average looks, but i could never connect enough with a girl for her to be my GF, eventhough i had good social skills/humor (of course i didn't show this personality when around girls, only guys). My SA is just much worst with girls for some reason. I would talk to them but the conversation always felt plain and not interesting because the SA in my head inhibited me from showing my true self. I believe i could never get a GF is because my SA was far worst with them than guys.
Now i come to believe, the only way to counter this is to pick one girl and talk to them for a long period of time (2-3 month), my theory is that eventually i will get comfortable with her after that long time phase. But my fear is that she will get bored of me and stop talking to me before that phase finishes. What you guys think?