Iseesky
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I'm young yet, but I just can't imagine how I'll ever have a boyfriend...I just feel like it's hopeless.
When I was still going to school, the chances of me getting a boyfriend were pretty good. I talked to guys...I didn't let them get close to me, but I talked to them! But, I got a great job offer working in an office, so I'm not going to school anymore. I'm the youngest employee at my new (full-time) job. My male coworkers are at least 15 years older than me (most being more like 20/30 years older than me).
One of my friends has a boyfriend, but he doesn't really have any close guy friends that he could hook me up with...And none of my other friends have guy friends.
That basically leaves me having to fall in love with a beautiful stranger...And, as you would guess, that's unlikely to happen. Striking up a conversation in an elevator or waiting for a bus might work for some people, but definitely not for me! Mostly because of SA, but also because I'm suspicious of people (strangers) that I don't see regularly (like I would someone in a class).
Where did you meet your significant other? At school? Through a friend? A chance encounter at the grocery store? And how did you have the guts to develop a relationship with them?
When I was still going to school, the chances of me getting a boyfriend were pretty good. I talked to guys...I didn't let them get close to me, but I talked to them! But, I got a great job offer working in an office, so I'm not going to school anymore. I'm the youngest employee at my new (full-time) job. My male coworkers are at least 15 years older than me (most being more like 20/30 years older than me).
One of my friends has a boyfriend, but he doesn't really have any close guy friends that he could hook me up with...And none of my other friends have guy friends.
That basically leaves me having to fall in love with a beautiful stranger...And, as you would guess, that's unlikely to happen. Striking up a conversation in an elevator or waiting for a bus might work for some people, but definitely not for me! Mostly because of SA, but also because I'm suspicious of people (strangers) that I don't see regularly (like I would someone in a class).
Where did you meet your significant other? At school? Through a friend? A chance encounter at the grocery store? And how did you have the guts to develop a relationship with them?
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