Hi to all,
I just was wondering how people like me can make friends, i know it could not be the best place to ask, but since there are many of you that out there that got friends and even a gf o bf, i thought i could get some advice.
The problem i face is that i can't manage to get to step 2 when getting to know a person, i mean that i can't get to know a person really well. It's 4 years i'm in this company, is like if it's the first time everytime i face a collegue.
At the begginging when i've to meet a stranger i can even be outgoing, and talk even a lot, i use this tecnique to overcome the fear, but then jiust i can't get to know that person, the following times infact the fear will get so high (even if i've already seen that person), my conversation skills will drop, i'll get dissapointed for this and even that person that thought i was an outgoing person, that person will find me unpleasent, and will start picking on me for this, i'll react and that person will pick on me even more, so i'll stop talking to him and i'll stop facing him for this. You soffeing from SA, how have you manage to overcome the fear and get to know the people you are in touch?
I just was wondering how people like me can make friends, i know it could not be the best place to ask, but since there are many of you that out there that got friends and even a gf o bf, i thought i could get some advice.
The problem i face is that i can't manage to get to step 2 when getting to know a person, i mean that i can't get to know a person really well. It's 4 years i'm in this company, is like if it's the first time everytime i face a collegue.
At the begginging when i've to meet a stranger i can even be outgoing, and talk even a lot, i use this tecnique to overcome the fear, but then jiust i can't get to know that person, the following times infact the fear will get so high (even if i've already seen that person), my conversation skills will drop, i'll get dissapointed for this and even that person that thought i was an outgoing person, that person will find me unpleasent, and will start picking on me for this, i'll react and that person will pick on me even more, so i'll stop talking to him and i'll stop facing him for this. You soffeing from SA, how have you manage to overcome the fear and get to know the people you are in touch?
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