Infected_Malignity
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Argamemnon said:
nah, you're taking it all too serious my man! true happiness (imo) comes from kicking back and just plain-old livin'. wouldn't mind getting laid either!
How important is sex to you?
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nah, you're taking it all too serious my man! true happiness (imo) comes from kicking back and just plain-old livin'. wouldn't mind getting laid either!
Leki
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I wouldn't know having never experienced it. I guess its not that important then in my life. I go through stages where i really want it and then other times i go for ages not even thinking about it. I anticipate being majorly disappointed if it ever does happen. Imagination is better than reality?
Argamemnon
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Are you a guy or a girl?Leki said:
alex29
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i crave the physical closeness, i want to feel wanted, to feel like someone really truely wants to be with me. Im still a virgin too but i cant wait for the day until im in a long term, serious relationship with someone im crazy about. i dont think i could ever have a one night stand
Ok, well this is my first time on these forums.
I'm a 21 year old guy that suffers from social anxiety paranoia I guess.
Which is a bit of a downer for me, but not in the least bit surprising considered how scared I get in public situations sometimes.
But despite this I have had some short winded relationships in the past, and the feeling of intamacy, whether it be just a friendly intamacy or a sexual intamacy is perhaps the greatest thing in the entire world. The problem I always had was lack of self worth, so while i may have had something great going I'd terminate the relationship because i felt bad for myself, or unworthy, or undeserving.
But i've always been happiest when i've been with someone like that. Hopefully some day I'll find an awesome babe who will be cool with me not being a perfect guy. In the mean time i'm gonna try my hardest to be awesome for myself and love myself, till someone is up for loving me.
I'm a 21 year old guy that suffers from social anxiety paranoia I guess.
Which is a bit of a downer for me, but not in the least bit surprising considered how scared I get in public situations sometimes.
But despite this I have had some short winded relationships in the past, and the feeling of intamacy, whether it be just a friendly intamacy or a sexual intamacy is perhaps the greatest thing in the entire world. The problem I always had was lack of self worth, so while i may have had something great going I'd terminate the relationship because i felt bad for myself, or unworthy, or undeserving.
But i've always been happiest when i've been with someone like that. Hopefully some day I'll find an awesome babe who will be cool with me not being a perfect guy. In the mean time i'm gonna try my hardest to be awesome for myself and love myself, till someone is up for loving me.
Argamemnon
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You said you anticipate being majorly disappointed if it ever does happen. It seems to me that it's usually guys who expect too much from sex. That's why I thought that you might be a girl.Leki said:
lexie66
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haha. how important is sex to me!? sometimes pretty darn important, others dormant. i'm bipolar and have also suffered from hypersexuality, this happened when i was like 16, sex was a major part of my life, when i was in my manic phase, sex to me then was just a need a longing to be with someone else, the closeness and the wanitng, it was a good thing, but now i'm kind of more open eyed about the whole situation i regret being the way i was, but i couldn't really help it, it was just he way my mind and body made me feel, i wish i could turn back time and make sex be this whole emotional and love thing it's supposed to be, but i can't and to me sex now is just a thing that two people do when they feel a certain way about each other.
Shattered
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Whoa now, pretty freakin' important. I am a bit of a nympho. Not to be stereotyping either but I've found in years of study that people who've been sexually abused, *most (not all) usually do end up on one end of the spectrum or the other, won't have it or simply can't stop. A day doesn't seem satisfied or fulfilled if i don't get some from my boyfriend. isn't that horrible? as addictive as cigarettes and vodka. damn me, i'm hopeless.
Carol
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Reholla said:
Good for you!
My husband and I were both virgins when we got married, and we've never regretted it. At the beginning I didn't like sex very much. It was awkward and uncomfortable, and emotionally I didn't quite know how to trust my husband enough that I could relax. But as time went by, we got more comfortable with each other, I was able to quit feeling self-conscious and learn to trust him, and then it got better and better. Now I often I want it as much as he does.
Quite honestly, I don't know how people (or at least, women) can enjoy one-night stands. I certainly never could have. It took me such a long time to be able to relax to the point that I could have any fun! Sex is much more satisfying when it's done God's way.
proudmummy
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I've been having regular sex since i was 15 & yeah its something I enjoy, who doesnt? but its overrated from saddos who want to make themselves look great & the media makes it out to be one of the biggest things about life, which is really really pathetic. The best sex is in a relationship with trust, one-night-stands have made me feel dirty in the past and are really pointless. I'm 21 now.
Wow, I don't see how people here who aren't comfortable talking to strangers managed to be comfortable enough to be in an intimate relationship. Can someone tell me how that works?
Argamemnon
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I don't know how it feels, so I don't know whether I'd like it or not. Probably not.proudmummy said:
Argamemnon
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I agree - apparently, they don't have it as nearly as bad as some of us! I simply can't imagine myself in a relationship or having sex, and actually ENJOY the experience. I would rather freak out. Like you said, I can't even talk to people, how am I going to have sex with them?Day_Tripper said:
Chod77
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Argamemnon said:I agree - apparently, they don't have it as nearly as bad as some of us! I simply can't imagine myself in a relationship or having sex, and actually ENJOY the experience. I would rather freak out. Like you said, I can't even talk to people, how am I going to have sex with them?Day_Tripper said:
agreed, I could never be close to someone like that. NEVER
VioletTears
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never mind
VioletTears
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I still can't believe I posted that. I might delete it later.