How do you deal with guests?

[_Brittany_]

I just stay in room until they leave, unless it's like a family member visiting. I can handle them.

 

[Psychedelicious]

I'll stay in my room until they are gone, even family members. Luckily people hardly ever visit!

 

[_Brittany_]

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Lucky! I always have guests!

:x

 

[Videotape]

i hate guests! they suck. its frustrating that im uncomfortable with guests. i pretty much say 'hi' then stay in my room bored waiting for them to leave. and once they have left u can't just jump out of ur room cause then its way too obvious u were avoiding the guests.

 

[chris87]

I'm okay with family members. If it's someone else, I'll go upstairs until they leave.

 

[misterF]

I hate it when there are guests...I sometimes have to talk to them to make a good impression but I'm way too quiet so I'm always a disappointment.

 

[Argamemnon]

I'll stay in my room until they are gone, even family members. Luckily people hardly ever visit!

You will regret it. I have done that for years. I know what I'm talking about, trust me. The more you avoid, the more depressed you will become. It gets much much worse over the years.

 

[JonnyD]

generally i avoid, i tried to pretend i was sleeping , but since my room don't have a lock, most family members generally just push he door :evil: it's annoying! i don't really want a lock...

When its someone i dont know i rarelly leave my room

 

[ava]

I run up to my room and hide until there gone aswell....even with family members :?

 

[nofriends34]

I literally run and hide in my room. I hate unfamiliar guests.

 

[xSleepy]

zoh my goblins! i used to run and hide tooooo! from family, my parents friends and brotheres friends. some people have called me the girl who never leaves her room, and that always hurt my feelings

i was really terrified of people coming over. i would starve myself all day if people were still over. my anxiety was so bad. i didnt wanna talk to anyone, i just wanted to be left alone. and i have been extremley lucky to not be bothered by any strangers coming over in like a year and a half.

and having to hide in my room made me feel so stupid. i think sometimes i cried cause i felt so ridiculous that i was so afraid of people that i had to hide in my room! it was really embarassing and i felt kinda ashamed i guess that i did that lsdkjfsdajfsklagjdklsafjdsklfjdsklfjsdljfldd

 

[Somebody]

Avoid them at all costs.

Don't really leave my room much to begin with, so I'm usually unaffected.
It does suck when there is a guest and you get hungry though, I'd just sit there and starve instead.

 

[weak]

I live on my own so the only guests I have are invited ones. I do avoid my neighbors though. Once they start talking they never shut up.

 

[NormanBates]

The same. It's odd when cousins come over who feel the exact same way.
Because you both talk to each other as a show for your moms, but yet as your talking, you notice the little micro-motion of pulling away as your talking. So odd. I must be crazy or something.

Lol on a side note, my sister is avoidant as well. She stayed inside so much that my brother's friends used to call her glow-worm. She has really white skin. I laughed at the joke since I thought it was funny, but I actually do know how she feels.

 

[proudmummy]

I used to do that when I lived at my mums... i'd avoid even family members sometimes. Now whenever I see family members or guests that used to come over they always say how I never used to go out, how I used to always be on the computer. Wish everyone would fucking shut their faces... WHY DON'T THEY ASK ME WHY I WAS LIKE THAT!?! Maybe I could explain I have a huge fucking mental problem and they should fucking help me through it. ASS HOLES.