In school. I'm really suprised because I am in my early 30's and she was really the first 'real' friend I have ever had (as an adult), and the closest friend I have ever had. Before I met her I didn't have any friends, I don't really get along with alot of women. but she is an awesome awesome friend. She has helped me so much. If it wasn't for her, I wouldn't have made it through school. I am suprised because like I said I never had any real friends.. and also because she seems pretty normal and I don't know why she wanted to be friends with me, even after knowing what I am really like. So, I am very, very lucky.