Instead of answering like I usually do... How about I ask the question back: How would you feel.....IF you were me? A 41 year old single male who has always wanted a girl friend, but no thanks to SA and panic which always brought on severe stomach pain.... I have always sought solitude out of comfort and to ease the physical pain. Loneliness is a way of life for me, I don't know anything else. I don't know what's it like to even kiss a girl, to wrap your arms around someone because you love them more than life itself... I will more than likely take my virginity to my grave.... My good years are behind me, and the only thing I have left to look forward to, is death... So..I ask the question... How would you feel if you were me?