zav943
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A couple of hours ago, my friend invited me to go out with him and bunch of people from work to go have lunch in a nice restaurant a couple of blocks down, and with great reluctance I said yes (desperate for social contact).
Anyway, I go downstairs and I met with him and another guy and off we walked to the restaurant. During that time, both of them talked about their softball team and some other "inside" stuff that I couldn't possibly contribute to, so for the 10 minute commute, I just walked silently (not upset or anything).
We get there, and I realize their are at least 15 people (and I know 3, maybe 4 of them). Due to the lack of "social momentum", I couldn't muster the courage to start talking to anyone (but then again, no body bothered to talk to me)...eventually, my friend turns to me and asks me the question I'm sure we've all been asked many, many times: "Hey, are you ok? You're not talking"'
What do you say to that??! why don't YOU help me out here...introduce me to some of these people or something...come on!
Anyways, I mananged to get some conversation going with the girl across the table from me but it was nigh impossible to keep it going...just question/answer/same question back at me/answer/END. But that's rarely how it works out...very often the utterance of the question: Are you ok? is enough to erase what little social confidence I have, leaving me silent the rest of the conversation...
Do you have any similar stories?
Anyway, I go downstairs and I met with him and another guy and off we walked to the restaurant. During that time, both of them talked about their softball team and some other "inside" stuff that I couldn't possibly contribute to, so for the 10 minute commute, I just walked silently (not upset or anything).
We get there, and I realize their are at least 15 people (and I know 3, maybe 4 of them). Due to the lack of "social momentum", I couldn't muster the courage to start talking to anyone (but then again, no body bothered to talk to me)...eventually, my friend turns to me and asks me the question I'm sure we've all been asked many, many times: "Hey, are you ok? You're not talking"'
What do you say to that??! why don't YOU help me out here...introduce me to some of these people or something...come on!
Anyways, I mananged to get some conversation going with the girl across the table from me but it was nigh impossible to keep it going...just question/answer/same question back at me/answer/END. But that's rarely how it works out...very often the utterance of the question: Are you ok? is enough to erase what little social confidence I have, leaving me silent the rest of the conversation...
Do you have any similar stories?