recluse
Well-known member
i've been a member of this forum and sas forum for a few years now and i've been thinking; what reason do i have other than to complain about my life? What i'm trying to say is i am not making any effort to rid myself of my problem by going out and meet people, and i'm thinking that i can't expect myself to magically change unless i put the effort in. I'm merely wasting my life sitting on my computer complaining and reading other people complaining, it's an addiction i know. I often wonder if i really do suffer from sa at times as i can go to stores alone etc but my self esteem is rock bottom which stops me from wanting to be with people and i literally have no clue what to talk about with people even my parents. I wish conversation was not needed because i feel immense pressure to think what to say. A girl in college told me ''you are no good at talking to people because you dont know what to say!'' whcich is true and still plays in my mind years later. This is why i fear the idea of going on a date, no woman wants a guy who has no interesting conversation and is socially awkward. I don't know how to change.