Snowdrop
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I know it's not healthy to keep avoiding things you are afraid of but still I was wondering if anyone could advise me :/
Some of you might already know from a previous thread but I'm going clubbing for the first time with a few friends and a bunch of other people I don't know, it's for a friend's birthday. I've had a few opportunities to go before but I've always bailed out because of SA. To be honest, I'm dreading it.
I know I will feel really uncomfortable during the whole thing but I'm going to just bear with it. It finishes late at 11.30pm but I have a feeling it's not going to stop there, especially if lots of people get drunk.
A few of us are staying over at the birthday girl's house and she'll drive us back to college in the morning which is like a 45min drive away but the thing is, I really DON'T want to stay over, because I know there will most likely be more drinking and socializing and I know I will have had enough at the club, I could only be able to bear it until then.
So what can I tell her as an excuse not to stay over? I might go along with it next time but I just feel there's only so much new things I can handle for the day. It's super pathetic but I just wouldn't feel good at all if I stayed ::
Thanks in advance
Some of you might already know from a previous thread but I'm going clubbing for the first time with a few friends and a bunch of other people I don't know, it's for a friend's birthday. I've had a few opportunities to go before but I've always bailed out because of SA. To be honest, I'm dreading it.
I know I will feel really uncomfortable during the whole thing but I'm going to just bear with it. It finishes late at 11.30pm but I have a feeling it's not going to stop there, especially if lots of people get drunk.
A few of us are staying over at the birthday girl's house and she'll drive us back to college in the morning which is like a 45min drive away but the thing is, I really DON'T want to stay over, because I know there will most likely be more drinking and socializing and I know I will have had enough at the club, I could only be able to bear it until then.
So what can I tell her as an excuse not to stay over? I might go along with it next time but I just feel there's only so much new things I can handle for the day. It's super pathetic but I just wouldn't feel good at all if I stayed ::
Thanks in advance
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