I am more lonely and isolated, people I used to know now have their adult lives with their families, friends, jobs. I don't have any of that.
When I was younger I believed or hoped that I would change and get better. Like "I will probably figure it out, I just have to get some more therapy or travel some more and then come home and get better". But nope, I'm not better. When I was younger I tried to hide my true self, I was ashamed that I was a social phobic and that my life was empty and boring and lonely. I'm still ashamed but I don't try to pretend anymore, I don't try to seem like I got it together. I guess it's good that I'm not trying to be something I'm not.