*Amy*
Well-known member
I know this will sound a little selfish, especially if your situation is worse than mine, but it's something that's been going on for some time and I wanted to talk about it. In any case, there it goes:
I have a couple of friends from high school whom I keep meeting from time to time, usually to have dinner or just to go for a walk and eat something. The thing is, the only thing they speak about are their work, their studies, their family, and gossiping about other people. Not that those are bad conversation topics, but when all we speak about is that, I end up getting bored. I don't mean that I want to have really deep or intellectual conversations, but it's just that I honestly don't care about members of their family whom I've never seen, or about everyday trifles. Yesterday I went to have dinner with them and I was silent for most of the time, not because I felt shy around them, but because I didn't have anything to say (something very typical about me).
Of course I'm not thinking of breaking off my friendship with them, because I really appreciate them and think they're good friends. I just wanted to ask if this is normal, if you guys have been in any similar situation. I don't know if I am too selfish or demanding, but that's what happens every time we meet. Maybe I should just be glad to have someone nearby to go out with. What do you guys think?
I have a couple of friends from high school whom I keep meeting from time to time, usually to have dinner or just to go for a walk and eat something. The thing is, the only thing they speak about are their work, their studies, their family, and gossiping about other people. Not that those are bad conversation topics, but when all we speak about is that, I end up getting bored. I don't mean that I want to have really deep or intellectual conversations, but it's just that I honestly don't care about members of their family whom I've never seen, or about everyday trifles. Yesterday I went to have dinner with them and I was silent for most of the time, not because I felt shy around them, but because I didn't have anything to say (something very typical about me).
Of course I'm not thinking of breaking off my friendship with them, because I really appreciate them and think they're good friends. I just wanted to ask if this is normal, if you guys have been in any similar situation. I don't know if I am too selfish or demanding, but that's what happens every time we meet. Maybe I should just be glad to have someone nearby to go out with. What do you guys think?