easier being female
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A_Void_Ant
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I don't like averages in this sense. An average is not true for everyone, and to say it is ruins if for those exclusions. This is something determined on the individual level.
this_portrait
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The only thing I have to be thankful for being female is that I'm not in prison. I know damn well that, with my bad temper, if I was male, I probably would've either beaten the hell out of or killed someone by now.
In regards to SA, I can see where the gender role thing comes from when it comes to dating, yes, but in a lot of other aspects of life, I'm not sure I really agree. I remember reading somewhere (I think it was a SA workbook/self-help book) that, in Western culture, women are expected to be more social than men. From my own experiences, I would agree with that sentiment, because I'm the way I am, and I get labeled "snobby" and a "b*tch" for it. I'm pretty sure if I was male, no one would care.
In regards to SA, I can see where the gender role thing comes from when it comes to dating, yes, but in a lot of other aspects of life, I'm not sure I really agree. I remember reading somewhere (I think it was a SA workbook/self-help book) that, in Western culture, women are expected to be more social than men. From my own experiences, I would agree with that sentiment, because I'm the way I am, and I get labeled "snobby" and a "b*tch" for it. I'm pretty sure if I was male, no one would care.
Juggalo
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If shes an idiot, she will choose her man based on this situation. So i guess being a nice guy, being intelligent and all that doesn't count for anything. Then you know what? SCREW WOMEN!!!!!
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Juggalo
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Whatever dude. Don't make the mistake of thinking I give a crap.
Juggalo
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You obviously do.
Oh ok, sure.
Juggalo
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Its just that the girls ive had crushes on have all dated nothing but tall or at least average height(5'9-5'11) guys. :
:And if it really came down to it I wouldn't let no Lurch mother****er beat me up, I'd pick up something to hit him with if thats what it took to do the job.
combat
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Its just that the girls ive had crushes on have all dated nothing but tall or at least average height(5'9-5'11) guys. :
No, what this actually is has nothing to do with your height. You are using that as a convenient excuse to deflect from the real issue because height happens to be a fixed physical attribute that you won't ever be able to change. Your height is not the issue.
Juggalo
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combat
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Ok, then how come they don't ever date short guys like me?
They do. They just aren't dating YOU.
Juggalo
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I'm talking about specific women, not women in general.
combat
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So how many men in total has this specific woman dated? It's going to have be a pretty decent number in order to draw a statistically relevant conclusion about her height preferences.
Juggalo
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Stop being argumentative. She dates taller dudes than me.
So: the girl you want only dates taller guys than you. Yes? What other course of action is there than to move on, then?
Juggalo
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Not just her, but then I had a crush on another chick, same thing happened. The second one is the one currently dating the guy who is 6'5"(whom I have threatened before).
Move on? Oh, I ACCEPT it. But it makes me angry and resentful at life that its this way.
I couldn't help but notice that you went from talking about 'women' to 'specific girls', to 'she', and now it's two specific girls. These are different cases to make an argument about and different rules apply.
Juggalo
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I know but I'm FILLED with it, it has been building for years. I'm a typical SA person who is outwardly reserved, especially in public, but inside? I am a boiling furnace.