TooShyShy
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thats how i feel somedays that he just follows me around, paces around me in circles, tried to be close but yet keep a safe distance so WHAT DO I DO i want him to come to me WHICH HE WON'T but i also don't want to scare him if i approach...get what i mean?
let me add that i do talk to him when i see him if he's alone, sometimes its work related, sometimes just to say ''whats up..'' he can do that sometimes as well..when he can handle it..and he does say hello EVERYDAY even if he has to walk by 2 or 3 times before he gets the nerve up HE KNOWS MY SCHEDULE BY HEART SO HE KNOWS WHEN TO COME OUT OF HIS OFFICE he makes a point of always saying hello to me sometimes over and over again ITS A BIG DEAL TO HIM if we run into one another through out the day so he always tries to say something...
unless he's feeling down then he keeps his head down and won't say hello but i guess he feels badly bcuz the next time he sees me he won't leave until we make contact of some sort..he will do the walking back and forth until he says hello thing.
he sometimes will just hang out when he knows i'll be around when he can handle me; cafeteria, office, etc. somedays he does it all day other days he can't come around without looking terrified...like i said he knows my schedule...its the same everyday so it depends on how he is feeling so i go by that!!!
he only gets really scared if like you said things get close between us or he feels panicked by it.
let me add that i do talk to him when i see him if he's alone, sometimes its work related, sometimes just to say ''whats up..'' he can do that sometimes as well..when he can handle it..and he does say hello EVERYDAY even if he has to walk by 2 or 3 times before he gets the nerve up HE KNOWS MY SCHEDULE BY HEART SO HE KNOWS WHEN TO COME OUT OF HIS OFFICE he makes a point of always saying hello to me sometimes over and over again ITS A BIG DEAL TO HIM if we run into one another through out the day so he always tries to say something...
unless he's feeling down then he keeps his head down and won't say hello but i guess he feels badly bcuz the next time he sees me he won't leave until we make contact of some sort..he will do the walking back and forth until he says hello thing.
he sometimes will just hang out when he knows i'll be around when he can handle me; cafeteria, office, etc. somedays he does it all day other days he can't come around without looking terrified...like i said he knows my schedule...its the same everyday so it depends on how he is feeling so i go by that!!!
he only gets really scared if like you said things get close between us or he feels panicked by it.
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so sad. 
