do you feel like you matter?
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EscapeArtist
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Equally as important, what does it mean to you to 'matter' ?
Golden Beam
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I think feeling like we don't matter is a perception gained from people not sharing their feelings with us about how we are indeed, important to them. What is unsaid then, is percieved as I am unimportant. We will never know how much we actually matter to many people we are around.
stevelee24
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i feel like im special like i have reason for being here but still do not know what the reason is
at the same time as this i feel completely useless like i dont have care i the world and im not important at all
at the same time as this i feel completely useless like i dont have care i the world and im not important at all
persianfan247
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In the greater scheme of the Universe no one matters. Mattering is relative.
KiaKaha
Banned
Probably - but that doesnt change the fact that I still feel very lonely and have a painful sense of disatisfaction inside my body.
I desire companionship and friendship, a sense of belonging a place in the world- which I dont seem to be able to attain.
That - makes me feel like I dont matter.
I desire companionship and friendship, a sense of belonging a place in the world- which I dont seem to be able to attain.
That - makes me feel like I dont matter.
Gaucho
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to other people than family members i don't matter. but for my close family i think I'm somehow a parasite, always problems and can't get anything done. I'm 19(nearly 20) and they see me probably as 13. I'm not angry with them about that, because thats how i feel anyways, i just forgot how to live on this planet over the years.
Srijita52
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This is exactly me. I'm sorry you feel this way too.
I really don't know what to say Kia. *hugs*
lyricalliaisons
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No, I don't matter to anyone.
BleedTheFreak
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There a few ways to interpret this question, but the first thing I thought when I read it was that I feel like my opinions don't matter because I haven't had enough life experience for my age. It's a pretty big reason why I keep my thoughts to myself.
YES. I feel the exact same way. Not experienced enough for my opinions on anything to matter, or that my viewpoint might even be laughed at for being so naive- so it seems better to keep quiet.
Srijita52
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I feel exactly same.
Srijita52
Well-known member
I've been reading your posts for quite a while now. Your opinions are very helpful to everyone here, I appreciate them very much. I'm sure they'll matter in real life too.
Windnine
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I feel so insignificant that I probably wouldn't even notice myself if I died
da_illest101
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No because I don't feel like life matters at all to be honest