Obstacle 1
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I was having a councelling session with my academic councillor the other day and we were discussing motivation and the 'good feelings' of achievement. Basically I told him because I undervalued a lot of my effort and was always short changing myself I lacked that feeling that motivates one to succeed.
And that got me thinking about the destructive effect on life in general if you have that mentality which I am sure relates to low self-esteem.
And I actually thought about times where I specifically denied myself the opportunity to feel good, for example listen to a cd I just bought or share an experience with someone or even to admit I had done something worth being proud of.
Does anyone else do this?
And that got me thinking about the destructive effect on life in general if you have that mentality which I am sure relates to low self-esteem.
And I actually thought about times where I specifically denied myself the opportunity to feel good, for example listen to a cd I just bought or share an experience with someone or even to admit I had done something worth being proud of.
Does anyone else do this?