my parents were mostly oblivious, and when i told them about being bullied and things, they trivialized them, and said it was my fault.
but then they also kept and continue to reinforce how useless and how much of a failure i am, but thats another story.
to be honest i still believe that it was my fault... (bullying in school) i just dont believe it was exclusively my fault..
i did stand up for myself for a while. it was my first course of action as a young child... i tried ignoring for a while... i tried telling... none of these things fixed my problems
i figured my way to fix the problems of being bullied was alot more calculated than just being reactionary. planning was paramount.. whether it was tricking them into trying to go too far in a place with witnesses, tricking them into bullying someone else who'se words mattered more to teachers, or planning a way to stand up to them that would have a long standing effect...
all in all , its made me a bit scary at times.. i find if you go for revenge, rather than just standing up for yourself its more successful because for everytime, you hit back, they hit you again. and if you hit harder than they can, they get assistance.