Describe your dream girl/guy

Jessica07

Member
I like this thread lol.. hmm dream guy

Sensitive - NOT to the point of crying over the sound of music, just someone who can see when i'm not myself and knows how to cheer me up (wouldnt take much.. cupa tea and a cuddle?)

Funny - at least as funny as me, and i'm bloody hilarious :) lol no but really, some people take themselves way too seriously

Strong minded - someone who doesnt take bull**** from anyone (including me lol) and is confident enough to be their own person

That's pretty much it, the rest would hopefully fall into place... doesnt seem to me to be asking for much but I've yet to meet anyone who comes anywhere close. Humph..
 

MaliceInWickedland

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Someone I love. Someone I am attracted to intellectually, emotionally and physically.
Someone who loves me. Someone who is attracted to me intellectually, emotionally and physically.

But you said it, it's a dream.

Aww Jonesy... you're a great guy and I know that's a dream you'll be able to make into reality some day. You'll see :)

As for me, I thought I met my dream person once. It was a girl too. We were best friends and she was the only person who ever truly made me feel accepted, among many other things. I was a lousy friend to her in the beginning and we fought a lot but she never once left my side or hated me. She was so different from everyone else I've ever known and I felt that the second I met her. We've lost touch since we graduated from high school and I'm afraid to initiate conversation with her, especially now that I've come to accept my sexuality and know I can't talk to her without telling her how I've felt all these years. She'd probably be disgusted or pretend to be delighted at first, then go out and tell everyone about it like that other girl from jr. high did when I told her that I liked her. I'm not saying she's the kind of person who would do that but after what happened with that other girl there will always be that underlying fear that the same thing will happen again.

Wow, there I go rambling again... Anyway, it doesn't matter either way. She has a life now and there's no room for me in it. That's just something I need to learn to accept.
 

Bo592

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a nice girl that sweet and cuddly . who love me for me. into geek stuff. the age of 24 to 35 and a women that won`t specializes in throwing pot and pans when I say " I am hungry "
 

BleedTheFreak

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Hmm...dream girl, I don't know. I'd like her to be down to earth, caring & compassionate, and with more of a girly-girl attitude I guess :rolleyes: She'd also probably have to be somewhat shy and reserved like me (unless I'm lucky enough to find someone who aggressively pursues me, which is doubtful). I think it'd be great to bond with someone with a similar personality to mine, that being someone who's shy but opens up as you get to know them. A relationship like that could be really special.

I also prefer brunettes, and tend to find shorter girls more attractive (can't really explain why). Blue or green eyes too, and an athletic build. Physical attraction is important, but little things like hair/eye color aren't really important. But this is my dream girl, after all. :)
 

MrJones

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Aww Jonesy... you're a great guy and I know that's a dream you'll be able to make into reality some day. You'll see :)

As for me, I thought I met my dream person once. It was a girl too. We were best friends and she was the only person who ever truly made me feel accepted, among many other things. I was a lousy friend to her in the beginning and we fought a lot but she never once left my side or hated me. She was so different from everyone else I've ever known and I felt that the second I met her. We've lost touch since we graduated from high school and I'm afraid to initiate conversation with her, especially now that I've come to accept my sexuality and know I can't talk to her without telling her how I've felt all these years. She'd probably be disgusted or pretend to be delighted at first, then go out and tell everyone about it like that other girl from jr. high did when I told her that I liked her. I'm not saying she's the kind of person who would do that but after what happened with that other girl there will always be that underlying fear that the same thing will happen again.

Wow, there I go rambling again... Anyway, it doesn't matter either way. She has a life now and there's no room for me in it. That's just something I need to learn to accept.
Thanks, but it's pretty complicated, just like me. I don't think I'll ever be with someone like that. I'm a freak and most people can't accept that (as well as many other things that make me.... me).

For what you said, I think there is always the fear of rejection, no matter if it happened before or not.

The thing is that if you believe that is the person of your dreams, you have to at least try it. Tell her how you feel and see what happens. Maybe she'll feel the same or maybe not, but at least you have to try.


ALERT: My advice can be totally useless as I've never been in a real relationship and everything I tried failed miserably.
 

gazelle

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Someone ...
-creative
-Interested in human rights and helping others human beings
-confident
-as long as not short an average look is fine
In others words a less arrogant ,monogamous ,younger version of Julian Assange. :D
 

Azael

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Age: 26
Height: 6ft
Weight: 72kg
Nationality: South African (German et Jewish descent)
Hue: See my picture
Eye: Hazel

Description: Loyal, affectionate, very patient and creative. I like to learn about the people I involve myself with. I'm by no means perfect, but I actively strive to be better and learn from my mistakes.

My Preference: I like petite women generally, that does not mean skinny. Dark hair as well. But I have strayed from those preferences. Aesthetically it's more a case-by-case thing. what I mostly concern myself with is personality. I'd enjoy someone with an enduringly patient disposition. Good natured, polite and affectionate. A witty sense of humour and creative. Some very accepting of people who sees the positives rather than the negatives. Loves animals and has a good moral standing. Someone steadfast that doesn't fall to peer pressure.
 

jennykins.3

Member
MUST be taller than me.
Glasses.
White complected
Good hygene.
Has my humor.
Good relationship with parents
independent
Giving
Outgoing but at the same time introverted & quiet.
Respectful.
Not shy but not loud.
Helpful
Availible
Wanting, not clingy.
 

Apotheosis

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Age: 19
Height/Weight: 6'2", 180lbs
Skin: White, not tan but I spend a lot of time in/on the ocean.
Hair: Dirty Blonde, Short
Eyes: ??? (I have central heterochromia, so my eyes are a sort of bluish turning hazelish towards the middle.)
Build: Athletic I guess. I run and swim a lot. You won't see me performing any feats of strength though. (Supposedly I'm effeminate-looking as well though I'm not quite sure what that entails. My face is narrowish.)
Personality: Well ****. I'm a terrible judge of my own character. A bit ****ed in the head, more often than not. I'm usually very relaxed but go a bit mad when I'm excited. Think Dexter with some Tyler Durden flavor, for that extra bit of self-destruction. I'm also a bit egocentric, or so I think (and of course that means I'm right).

As for my dream girl/guy - I don't really know. Everyone I've dated has always been as crazy or crazier than me so I suppose I'm attracted to brokenness. I don't have any special rules - I'd just want, or maybe need someone willing to deal with my kind of crazy, and understand that wanting to be alone does not mean I don't want to be with them.

But dreams are for sleeping. Reality is never ideal.
 

SAM2011

Banned
My dream guy:

Tall
Dark hair
Nice skin (tanned)
Doesn't smoke
Good Hygene
Independent
Muscly (not too much as that's a turn off)
Dresses nice
Sense of Humor
Giving
Wants me all the time
Romantic
Loves cuddles
Nice Butt
Strong Minded
 
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coyote

Well-known member
My dream guy:

Tall
Dark hair
Nice skin (tanned)
Doesn't smoke
Good Hygene
Independent
Muscly (not too much as that's a turn off)
Dresses nice
Sense of Humor
Giving
Wants me all the time
Romantic
Loves cuddles
Nice Butt
Strong Minded

three strikes on the first three pitches - dang
the rest would have got me a base hit, at least
 

MrJones

Well-known member
dreams come true sometimes

it could still happen
True, but (and sorry for being pessimistic), as a dream it could also never happen...

Maybe you will feel that way for someone or someone will feel that way for you, but that is not enough at all.
 
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