i paid for 3 months on match and i was completely honest on my profile about me and how i am what i like and don't like and i got 1 message and she lost interest fast. with my severe social anxiety and that 98% of women online want an outgoing adventurous guy that is 6 feet or taller. i have given up. i have my video games they don't judge me.
i do not suggest you give up, i am a lost cause nothing can help me. i wish you luck!
In every offline dating agency, and on every online dating site, there is always a significantly large disproportion of more males for less females. Usually 70-80% males and 20-30% females.
Why? Because social and natural roles dictate that males (in most mammalian species) are to compete for female attention since the female can only be impregnated once over a long period, hence, she would choose only the best alpha-male types to make her time and energy worth his good genes.
As long as a female has at least average reproductive qualities (as reflected in a healthy appearance; good personalities generally are down-favored as compared, because healthier genes are more important for species survival and health than good personalities, in natural evolution), then a single female will always have an abundance of male attention as long as she makes herself noticeable to males.
This means that females do not generally lack male attention (hence lesser need to use a dating agency/site) unless they have lack of social skills or social anxiety or severe personality problems which do not draw, or instead turn away, male attention.
And males like us who have these aforementioned problems face a greater disadvantage than females in the same field due to the greater competition among males, and the fact that healthy females will only choose the best alpha male as she always has a large pool of mates to choose from, hence making her 9-month pregnancy period worth her time, effort and energy for alpha male genes.