Crush?

[kihira]

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[Looking_in105]

- having butterflies feeling in stomach when you think about them/near them
- feel more energised around them and want to impress them
- makes you smile when you think about them

 

[vj288]

- having butterflies feeling in stomach when you think about them/near them
- feel more energised around them and want to impress them
- makes you smile when you think about them

This is the biggest indicator I think. And wanting to be around them so you never stop.

 

[Spike Lee]

I dunno, but I try my best to avoid them.

I end up getting sad when they end up getting married/have a baby etc.

Unrequited love truly sucks ass and is probably one of the worse feelings in the world.

 

[just wanna b normal]

I dunno, but I try my best to avoid them.

I end up getting sad when they end up getting married/have a baby etc.

Unrequited love truly sucks ass and is probably one of the worse feelings in the world.

yeah when you think about it crush dont really mean a thing unless you take action & turn that crush into love! yeah it hurts when you see the person you had a crush on with someone else!

 

[3lefts]

Having a crush, for me is like being tortured. I dislike it.
Always get caught between action and inaction. And the conclusion that disappointment is inevitable.

 

[Feathers]

Hm, a 'crush' is something that doesn't necessarily have to go anywhere, you just like seeing a certain person, you can know they would be totally wrong for you, but you still like them and are happy to see them etc.
Sometimes you want to be near them, sometimes you want to avoid...
A crush can be mutual and may not lead anywhere...
Sometimes you see them everywhere even though you wanted to avoid (or hoped to see them ) 'Synchronicity' - sometimes...

A crush is more fun than the 'unrequited love' part... It's basically before you know it's unrequited lol.. Or when you still think, hey maybe it's possible..

It's quite funny, sometimes... People can trip on stairs, or fall off a bicycle or do silly things... Looking back, it can be really funny...

 

[coyote]

Question: What would be your definition of 'crush', as in having a crush on someone and what are the symptoms you feel?

it typically involves blood rushing to certain parts of my body

 

[Sial Axetder]

I really don't know. Seems robotic, I know, but I am kind of new to allowing emotions. Denying them is not the answer.

I'd have to say the chief emotion felt is confusion.

 

[Kiwong]

The word it brings back bad memories of the last person I truly fell for. At the time I tried to explain it away as an adolescent crush, but I think it was more than that, I think I actually loved her, but it was unrequited and ended badly, and has contributed to the anxiety I suffer from today. This was ten years ago. I can't even entertain the thought of developing crushes anymore.

 

[lunarla]

Something I only attribute to being really little. Like, kindergarten stuff. That's how I see it anyway.

 

[Dr. Doom]

I feel like "Oh ****, oh ****" if they are around me. My anxiety goes up around them. Not much else, just all the symptoms of axiety are just a little more magnified.