Overload
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I'm certain I'm codependent. Here's a link Mental Health America: Co-dependency
Characteristics (almost all of these describe me)
* An exaggerated sense of responsibility for the actions of others
* A tendency to confuse love and pity, with the tendency to “love” people they can pity and rescue
* A tendency to do more than their share, all of the time
* A tendency to become hurt when people don’t recognize their efforts
* An unhealthy dependence on relationships. The co-dependent will do anything to hold on to a relationship; to avoid the feeling of abandonment
* An extreme need for approval and recognition
* A sense of guilt when asserting themselves
* A compelling need to control others
* Lack of trust in self and/or others
* Fear of being abandoned or alone
* Difficulty identifying feelings
* Rigidity/difficulty adjusting to change
* Problems with intimacy/boundaries
* Chronic anger
* Lying/dishonesty
* Poor communications
* Difficulty making decisions
Does this describe anyone else? I'm pretty sure it's the root of most of my anxiety problems.
Characteristics (almost all of these describe me)
* An exaggerated sense of responsibility for the actions of others
* A tendency to confuse love and pity, with the tendency to “love” people they can pity and rescue
* A tendency to do more than their share, all of the time
* A tendency to become hurt when people don’t recognize their efforts
* An unhealthy dependence on relationships. The co-dependent will do anything to hold on to a relationship; to avoid the feeling of abandonment
* An extreme need for approval and recognition
* A sense of guilt when asserting themselves
* A compelling need to control others
* Lack of trust in self and/or others
* Fear of being abandoned or alone
* Difficulty identifying feelings
* Rigidity/difficulty adjusting to change
* Problems with intimacy/boundaries
* Chronic anger
* Lying/dishonesty
* Poor communications
* Difficulty making decisions
Does this describe anyone else? I'm pretty sure it's the root of most of my anxiety problems.