I have kind of accepted that I am pretty much mute with pretty much everyone and stopped caring to be honest.
The bit that hurts me the most is I am sooooooo quite with my boyfriend soon he will leave because why should he be with someone who doesn't give him much back. yesterday I opened up a bit after a glass of wine haha and he said "I try so hard to get you to loosen up because your actually the funniest person I know but you rarely let me see that side'. He doesn't know me to be honest. I just can't open up to him at all. When I say I am quite I literally mean silent I say like 10 words when I am with him and he feels like he has to keep the conversation going and I know he hates it. Sometimes I just wish he ends it because I feel like the most boring, uninteresting, quietest, most awkward uncomfortable person in the world. He tells me everything and I just always feel like I have nothing to say. Put me in front of my best friend I wont shut up all day. If I can just be myself with him it would be amazing cause we are a lot alike than he knows. :/ this is why I like having no one. I just keep beating myself about how crap I come across.
When I try I am soo quite that I always have to repeat myself, my voice comes out emotionless so if I make a joke he just thinks I am being serious, if im upset about something and I try get that across I start mumbling and lost with my words and he just doesn't understand.
I think I start of quite and I get comfortable and then I find it hard to then speak up. I honestly don't get why its like this. its been 5 months :/!!! when he says he loves me I just think its utter crap because he cant. He doesn't really know what I am like at all.
Anyone got advice. Please.
The bit that hurts me the most is I am sooooooo quite with my boyfriend soon he will leave because why should he be with someone who doesn't give him much back. yesterday I opened up a bit after a glass of wine haha and he said "I try so hard to get you to loosen up because your actually the funniest person I know but you rarely let me see that side'. He doesn't know me to be honest. I just can't open up to him at all. When I say I am quite I literally mean silent I say like 10 words when I am with him and he feels like he has to keep the conversation going and I know he hates it. Sometimes I just wish he ends it because I feel like the most boring, uninteresting, quietest, most awkward uncomfortable person in the world. He tells me everything and I just always feel like I have nothing to say. Put me in front of my best friend I wont shut up all day. If I can just be myself with him it would be amazing cause we are a lot alike than he knows. :/ this is why I like having no one. I just keep beating myself about how crap I come across.
When I try I am soo quite that I always have to repeat myself, my voice comes out emotionless so if I make a joke he just thinks I am being serious, if im upset about something and I try get that across I start mumbling and lost with my words and he just doesn't understand.
I think I start of quite and I get comfortable and then I find it hard to then speak up. I honestly don't get why its like this. its been 5 months :/!!! when he says he loves me I just think its utter crap because he cant. He doesn't really know what I am like at all.
Anyone got advice. Please.