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Hahahahahahaha nice. This photo cracks me up. I wonder how they got them to do that all at the same time.
Hahahahahahaha nice. This photo cracks me up. I wonder how they got them to do that all at the same time.
rand0m_guy said:No problem.
Just haven't enjoyed seeing you get flamed for starting (one of the only positive) threads on the site lately. Even though you've certainly held your own - and then some.
rand0m_guy said:Meh. Some people seem to be content to wallow in self-pity forever more, want to let the world know about how much they're suffering, but still aren't prepared to do anything about it.
rand0m_guy said:I guess I can consider myself lucky for always wanting to be pro-active when it comes to wanting to help myself. I appreciate that if you're extremely depressed it can be very hard to help yourself, I know, I've been there
rand0m_guy said:Can't see a problem myself with any of this:
Man enjoys attracting woman/enjoying sex & possible relationship with said women
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Women enjoys being attracted to man/enjoying sex and possible relationship with said man
= More happiness for both parties? Yep.
Everyone's a winner as far as I can see.
Do you believe in relationships without seduction or focus on sexual attraction Sickjoke?
Long term relationships from this kind of thing are fragile at best.
As the attraction is wholly superficial and skin deep.
As some others have said, you dont need to learn a skill to talk to the opposite sex. It's a cultural trapping.
Yeah, right off the bat I was getting flamed. When I saw the first reply I was like "WTF, this is a positive thread, I don't get it... " And then it just kept coming. Thankfully a few sensible people replied as well..
I can see why you got your ass booted off of the other site.Yeah, it shows they have no idea what they're talking about
It pisses you off that guys are improving their lives and learning how to interact with women?
Yeah, it shows they have no idea what they're talking about
Danfalc said:It probaly didnt help you told the first person who had a different opinion that he was spewing bullshit
Danfalc said:I know your passionate about this and your trying to help people with your personal experiences,and it must seem frustrating that people seem to be throwing stuff back in your face,but people are always going to have different opinions Try not to take it personaly if you can help it.
BigShrimp said:People don't have to be wallowing in self-pity to not want to try the PUA crap.
BigShrimp said:I know I wouldn't want a women who would fall for it.
BigShrimp said:And, yes, I do have a girlfriend, even though I don't have very good social skills.
BigShrimp said:I'm not saying that there isn't some pieces of good advice in there, but I don't blame anybody for not wanting buy into the overall PUA message. To each his own.
No, it pisses me off that guys want to use this book mostly to get laid.
From I've gathered, "improving lives" here means having sex with as many girls as possible while having no real long-term commitment to them.
I may not be an expert like you obviously are, but I think I'm familiar enough with the female mind to know what most of us find a major turn-off.
Haven't you read that thread where one girl even considers going lesbian because "most guys" are jerks?
Sure most guys aren't jerks, but people like you certainly make it seem impossible to believe.
Whatever, dude. Charm the girls you meet at nightclubs with your so-suave techniques and have them fall heads over heels for you, I'm just glad some of us are not part of the problem.
HAHAHA You may have a point there, but was true! He ignored the 500 5-star reviews, based his opinion only off the 25 1-star reviews, and claimed to know what the book is about .
worrywort said:Great advice again sickjoke.....I definitely don't like the idea of manipulating anybody....but then I don't think that's what this is all about.
the reason why I like this advice is because so often I'll be out in public, sitting on the train, whatever, and I'll notice soooo many interesting people around me...not just women.....and I think about all the possible, wonderful connections and relationships I could be forming with all these fascinating people......and yet I never open my mouth!......there's this huge invisible social wall that say's you can't just go up and talk to strangers......but why not?
most of these tips sound like ways to make the other person feel comfortable and special and respected....which can only be a good thing in my book....anything that can deepen my understanding of social psychology so that I can connect with other human beings better has got to be a good thing.....so long as I never use it manipulatively and am always totally respecting of the other person's freedom.
.....man, this girlfriend issue really bugs me sometimes.....I hope I don't regret never having a girlfriend too much when I'm older.
cosmosis said:It's not so much the information that bothers people, its your adamant belief that everyone who has social anxiety needs it.
cosmosis said:That some how you see us as people who just 'don't get it' or are not yet up to your level of understanding yet.
cosmosis said:You give alot of good information and help, but even someone so experienced can learn from others.
cosmosis said:Maybe you don't realize how diverse, intelligent and experienced most of us are.
cosmosis said:Can't you see that this isn't for everyone?
cosmosis said:It's not about us not understanding nor trying to win an argument with semantics.
cosmosis said:Did you need experience, knowledge and trial and error with your 1st friend growing up? Of course not, it just happened because of common interests.
cosmosis said:Real relationships happen naturally and it can be extremely deep and real the 1st time around.
cosmosis said:Maybe understand that for some of us its just not what we want even if there wasn't anxiety.
I've perused the thread, haven't read it all, I have heard of these techniques before and I think the only thing that can be judged about it is the intention of the person using it. The horny son'a bitch who wants to get laid could do so with these techniques, the person that just wants to meet new people can use them too, no harm no foul.
That's what I think of your post: nonsense