combat
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I've overcome a lot of my issues over the past years. I have a pretty social job that involves a lot of interaction with coworkers and strangers, I can have normal conversations (some meaningful, some just general chit chat) with coworkers without feeling nervous, I can joke around, I have no issue interacting with supervisors, etc. I even go out and socialize with coworkers/friends at bars and sometimes I'll even go out with a friend or two to a club (though, I have to confess, even after drinking a decent amount I don't seem to have any success). In rare instances, I can even get flirty with certain girls (just the ones I click with when they have the same sense of humor/sarcasm as me).
I just can't move it beyond any of this. I really don't know how people get into dating relationships with each other. I mean, I know guys who can talk a different woman into bed with them practically every other night. I don't get it. Usually I just drink in order to suppress thinking about this stuff, but tonight the alcohol seems to be making me ponder this more than usual. What am I missing here?
I just can't move it beyond any of this. I really don't know how people get into dating relationships with each other. I mean, I know guys who can talk a different woman into bed with them practically every other night. I don't get it. Usually I just drink in order to suppress thinking about this stuff, but tonight the alcohol seems to be making me ponder this more than usual. What am I missing here?