fedupoffear88
Well-known member
Hello,
I believe the cause of my SP/SA are my parents, especially my dad. They constantly keep on comparing me to others, and sometimes the comparisons are not even rational. For ex. I just turned 21, and they'll compare me to a 28 yr old who is married and has kids, tellin me that you are worthless and that person is so successful and hardworking, that you are not smart enough or capable enough to find a good job, you are lazy and senseless, and all kinds of bs like that. This constant nagging has been goin on for years, and i fed up of it. I feel like leavin this fu*kin house any min, but don't have a job for past 3 months and can't find any good friend to move in with me. This happens almost every single day. Also he wud not lemme hang out late or hang out at all most of the time, and for that reason my social life is non-existant. Always, whenever my friends ask me to hang out with them, i gotta refuse everytime, cuz of him. And so after awhile they don't even ask. When i wud find a job at some store or something, he wud tell me that the job wud not give me any benefit and that it's useless, find a better job. And then few days later he'll start telling me how i don't work and earn any money, or how i'm so dependent. What the f@#k is this, i can't take this shit anymore!!! I believe the constant feeling of worthlessness, that arises from this, is the cause of mah social phobia.
Tell me your story....
I believe the cause of my SP/SA are my parents, especially my dad. They constantly keep on comparing me to others, and sometimes the comparisons are not even rational. For ex. I just turned 21, and they'll compare me to a 28 yr old who is married and has kids, tellin me that you are worthless and that person is so successful and hardworking, that you are not smart enough or capable enough to find a good job, you are lazy and senseless, and all kinds of bs like that. This constant nagging has been goin on for years, and i fed up of it. I feel like leavin this fu*kin house any min, but don't have a job for past 3 months and can't find any good friend to move in with me. This happens almost every single day. Also he wud not lemme hang out late or hang out at all most of the time, and for that reason my social life is non-existant. Always, whenever my friends ask me to hang out with them, i gotta refuse everytime, cuz of him. And so after awhile they don't even ask. When i wud find a job at some store or something, he wud tell me that the job wud not give me any benefit and that it's useless, find a better job. And then few days later he'll start telling me how i don't work and earn any money, or how i'm so dependent. What the f@#k is this, i can't take this shit anymore!!! I believe the constant feeling of worthlessness, that arises from this, is the cause of mah social phobia.
Tell me your story....