I'm having the same problems now with my current boyfriend that I have had with previous boyfriends....
I avoid having serious and deep conversations with my boyfriend, he says I just seem to shut down when something serious is brought up.
I have done this before, when something serious comes up in conversation or anything that might make me emotional, I just can't discuss it, I completely panic! I change the subject, I get angry and snap, I do anything to NOT talk about it......as a result its making him think that I am being secretive, which is not true, I just struggle to talk about some things...
Like we are planning to move in next year and I even struggle to talk about that which is not a good sign if we are going to live together......I won't discuss it in person but I will text him afterwards what I wanted to say.
It is so frustrating for both me and especially him. I have told him I will work on it but I really don't know where to start!!
Has anyone any experience of this?ways to get over it??::
I avoid having serious and deep conversations with my boyfriend, he says I just seem to shut down when something serious is brought up.
I have done this before, when something serious comes up in conversation or anything that might make me emotional, I just can't discuss it, I completely panic! I change the subject, I get angry and snap, I do anything to NOT talk about it......as a result its making him think that I am being secretive, which is not true, I just struggle to talk about some things...
Like we are planning to move in next year and I even struggle to talk about that which is not a good sign if we are going to live together......I won't discuss it in person but I will text him afterwards what I wanted to say.
It is so frustrating for both me and especially him. I have told him I will work on it but I really don't know where to start!!
Has anyone any experience of this?ways to get over it??::