No, certainly not. Where did you get that from?
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Are you tired of being a virgin due to your social phobia
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Jake123
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Just wondering.
I don't know if u saw my post, let's sleep with each other, find someone near u and have some SA sex, but I guess r point is in being accepted by a normal person and having sex, or u just wanna get laid... find someone near u with SA, I don't want to have sex yet, I guess it comes with the years...
iamthenra
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I agree totally... BUT...I don't want to die without knowing what it's like... Kind of a catch 22....
Mack_Berserk
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I have a friend who regularly comments on the fact that I haven't had sex as if it didn't destroy my self-esteem. I'm 22. I don't so much want to have sex just to have it - I moreover want to feel normal... Everyone else my age that I'm around has experienced it.
iamthenra
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Now that is funny! Good grief, if that's the case then I must be fine crystal and too expensive, because everyone is afraid to touch me, because I cost too much??? Haha!
Maybe I need to put myself up on a auction... Haha! I'll go to the highest bidder! (or even the lowest for that matter.... Haha!)
Jake123
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Now that is funny! Good grief, if that's the case then I must be fine crystal and too expensive, because everyone is afraid to touch me, because I cost too much??? Haha!
Maybe I need to put myself up on a auction... Haha! I'll go to the highest bidder! (or even the lowest for that matter.... Haha!)
I...can't...breathe... lmao
Yeah, I'm a 22 year old woman and still a virgin. I feel like I'll be one forever at this pathetic rate. Seriously, how am I ever gonna get laid, let alone a serious boyfriend, if I don't get over my anxiety and go out and do things. I'm in a total rut!
DownInAHole
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I haven't had a serious girlfriend, but thankly I did end up losing my virginity a couple years ago at age 21. However, it would be nice to have a girlfriend and get it consistenly lol.
slapstick
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Can't say I'm a virgin but..I am tired of my mates trying to hook me up all the time with random girls lol.I know they're trying to look out for me but it makes me feel even more socially incompetent. They know bout my condition by the way and are the best friends you could ever ask for. My friends even offer to drive me somewhere to get laid even if they know the're not gonna get anything out of it, so my advise, get some awesome friends like mine and you're sussed bro!
iamthenra
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Can't say I'm a virgin but..I am tired of my mates trying to hook me up all the time with random girls lol.I know they're trying to look out for me but it makes me feel even more socially incompetent. They know bout my condition by the way and are the best friends you could ever ask for. My friends even offer to drive me somewhere to get laid even if they know the're not gonna get anything out of it, so my advise, get some awesome friends like mine and you're sussed bro!
Where do I find friends like that? I am jealous, you have amazing friends! I am not above being set up like that. I know that I wouldn't be able to accept a one night stand or just to go out and get laid... Because I want a gf first and to be in love, then if things are right, loose the "V" card once and for all...
whysoserious?
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Im 25 and im afflicted with the dreaded V. There may be a silver lining though but as usual there's a problem. I've been seeing an older woman for a few weeks now and things have been going good. Its always friendly and platonic, but last time she left she gave me a full on sexual kiss. I have been kissed before (honest lol) but it caught me off guard so i just kinda stood there like a rabbit in headlights. I've been invited to hers and im terrified that she might want to have sex. I want to have sex too but i've kept quiet about my V and the lack of any past relationships she assumes i've had. I definatley dont want to tell her but i mortified of her asking while im attempting "it". She has more experience and i dont want her to think of me as some scared little boy, which im not. Just a scared man lol (although i guess im not a man until i lose "it" right ?) Rambling now....
Also ive kept the whole thing quiet from my friends (who know about my V) because i met her online and i know i'll get the piss taken outta me. So even if i do go through with it, i can't tell anyone.
What the hell should i do ?
Also ive kept the whole thing quiet from my friends (who know about my V) because i met her online and i know i'll get the piss taken outta me. So even if i do go through with it, i can't tell anyone.
What the hell should i do ?
There is no need to tell her about your being a virgin. In fact, it's not uncommon to be "unexperienced" or "scared", despite past sexual encounters. The first time with a new partner may be exciting for both involved and doesn't have much to do with "virginity".
Do what you deem a proper course of action - seriously, you can't lose much you don't want to rid yourself off anyway.
Shift
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I'm okay with being a virgin. Since I've gotten out of high school, no one makes fun of me for it anymore because it's not really important and no one actually cares if I'm a virgin or not.
However, it is awkward hanging out in a dorm full of guys when all they talk about is sex, drugs, and alcohol because I don't do any of those things and I have no idea what people are talking about most of the time. Haha.
However, it is awkward hanging out in a dorm full of guys when all they talk about is sex, drugs, and alcohol because I don't do any of those things and I have no idea what people are talking about most of the time. Haha.