thing is.. even casual dress these days is to look like you've spent 2-3 hours in the bathroom ...some people have hair that sits perfectly, can dress up in hip clothes and look great, others have a harder time of it ...
young people these days, you go out and see girls wearing tight pants and ugg boots or expensive shoes with a striped top and a scarf and hair that looks like its been crafted straight out of a cleo magazine, guys are dying their hair more and more and sylizing ...
that its almost odd stepping outside and looking ordinary these days with a normal t-shirt and jeans, at lease where i live anyway ....
I dont know, i always have people commenting that my hair is too messy and doesnt look right that its off putting, if i comb it and put gel in it i dont like the look of it and if i leave it short i'm not happy with it, yet my sister and cousins will tell me it suits more then my current look, its a brain masher, that's for sure. ...
I just wear the indie punk look, converse shoes, semi tight jeans, belt, hip t-shirt, hoodie top, clothes you can throw on in zero time and walk outside ..
i felt much better once i'd looked for shoes and jeans i found suited me, it can take time but i feel better in certain clothes ...
its funny going through phases, i remember the mid 90's baggy cargo pants and jeans were hip, now its normal/tighter jeans that are more common then normal ..
Ive found that if your looking for a formal look, a white shirt with a half dangling red tye, jeans and converse is borderline but enough to pass the test ...but i rarely do it, i just dont like the tuxido look at all, not to mention its uncomfortable wearing one ..