Anyone here married?

[sabbath9]

That actually sounds pretty great. Sleeping with someone every night sounds horrible to me. I'd love to just have my own little corner of the house, with a hammock, lol...if I ever did decide to live with someone.

Do you feel much different, now that you're married Sabbath?

yep, feels great to love and be loved

 

[hobo10]

i saw an episode of "Everybody Loves Raymond" today where Deborah and Raymond were sitting at a restaurant and there was so much awkward silence between them. I fear that thats what will happen if i get married. How do you not run out of things to talk about?

 

[danstelter]

Awkward silence is probably going to happen in every marriage at some point. While that show is hilarious, remember that it is not realistic (for the most part) and that Raymond's marriage is far from a good one. Having a fear of not knowing what to talk about is really not a big deal; when you find the right person you'll have plenty to talk about!

 

[Ashiene]

Hi all, I'm currently happily married to my computer.

 

[RedRibbons]

I'm not married. And I don't look at marriage conventionally. The union of two people does not have to be written on a piece of paper. As long as the two individuals love each other, and have some way of symbolizing it, a way to make it special to each other.. I think that's all that is necessary.

I've never lived with a boyfriend before. I don't know how it would work, but I think it would be nice to be able to sleep in the same bed as them, although I can't cuddle every night, it makes it almost impossible to sleep. It would also be nice to just know they are around, they wouldn't need to be with me 24/7.. To feel their energy though, would be nice.

I like the idea of two people working together as one, supporting and loving each other, and moving forward in life, starting a family and such..

 

[Argamemnon]

I'm totally unable to marry or establish a long term relationship with anyone, since I'm so depressed that I can't even work. I have no social life either. Who would want to be with someone like that? Nobody.

 

[mrb]

was married but not anymore

 

[meatcake]

I find it really odd to hear myself saying this, but I could have been married by now. I didn't want to though because in both cases they had small children, and I had no clue how to be a parent. I was really afraid of passing my problems on to them.

I like the idea of separate bedrooms also. Then you could sleep over in the other person's room every now and then

 

[BeachGaBulldog]

No, I am not married, and am 49 years old. When I was younger, I wanted to be married, but as I have gotten older, I thank God that I am not.
I have had some relationships, but they always fell apart. After my last one, I said "no more". I know that I was just not meant to have someone in my life.
As for relationships, it is just too stressful and too damn much work. Dealing with womens moods, etc. just isn't worth it to me. I am willing to work for a lot of things in life, but not a relationship anymore.

 

[Noca]

Two bedrooms and two baths works out great. I snore and grind my teeth, plus sometimes I wake at 4:30am and can't get back to sleep. She can sleep in, stay up late, surf on her netbook, etc. I sometimes fall asleep in her bed, then I'll wake in the middle of the night and sneak off to my bed. Also I usually use talk radio or classical music to crash.

Most of the time we're both in the computer room, which has 2 computer desks, 2 telephones, 4 PC's, 2 printers, etc. Or we'll watch movies and play ps3 in the living room.

mm your life sounds great!