A wider view of more than one (girls can play too!)

would you ever consider taking more than one lover at a time?

  • yes and I've done it

    Votes: 6 8.0%
  • yes I haven't done it but I'd like to

    Votes: 6 8.0%
  • no I've done it and regret it

    Votes: 2 2.7%
  • no it's never an okay thing to do

    Votes: 30 40.0%
  • no but I'm okay with my partner doing it

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • no but I'm okay with other people (not my partner) doing it

    Votes: 18 24.0%
  • maybe under the right circumstances

    Votes: 6 8.0%
  • only as a menage a trois

    Votes: 6 8.0%
  • only if my primary partner never found out about it

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • only if it were with Monica Bellucci / the old spice guy

    Votes: 1 1.3%

  • Total voters
    75

ohheybbyitscorixx

Well-known member
I would like to be in a relationship with only one person, but date different people and just have fun on the side. I would permit my s/o to do the same. Just not at that time of the month when my emotions are all messed up haha!
 

Kinetik

Well-known member
I think I'd only be interested in more than one when it comes to the bedroom. It'd be far too draining to be emotionally invested in multiple women.
 

Etbow23

Well-known member
Personally, I wouldn't want to share my time, my energy or my germs with more than one person at once and I wouldn't want to be sharing my partner with other women or men.

Me too...& I'm glad you mentioned the germs thing. I mean, in today's world there are SOO many stds and sti's crawling around...even if you use protection there is still risk.

When I was young, around 16, I slept around after I was ...assaulted. I became <hypersexual>. I felt disgusting and taken advantage of. And dirty. And I remember my friend and I had a fight and she said something really mean about ...it.

I'm happy being in monogamous relationship. I didn't feel happy before...I think because women need that emotional connection in order to feel <satisified>...okay now I'm embarrassing myself..
 

MikeyC

Well-known member
When I was young, around 16, I slept around after I was ...assaulted. I became <hypersexual>. I felt disgusting and taken advantage of. And dirty. And I remember my friend and I had a fight and she said something really mean about ...it.
Sorry to hear about your assault but I know someone who was assaulted and she became hypersexual, too. Not that what you did was wrong, but I'm glad you are able to control the hypersexuality.
 

Ambere

Active member
I imagine it would be hard to have more than one lover with absolutely no emotional attachment. I don't really understand why you would want more than one lover but if your going to do that you might as well be up front about it and let them all know what you expect from this. The worst thing you could do would be to lie and end up hurting someone.
 

Roman Legion

Well-known member
I can't even get one.. First step is talking to them.. Can't get off that one.. :/ I am comfortable being single.. Afterall, that's what they invented internet porn for right? ;) (Besides to make money off of.. :p )
 
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