P+G
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My friend and I have talked everyday since we met online by MSN, messages and text. It's been over two months. We get along well. We met up this week for the first time and it was hell, he said. The start was alright, we were bound to be awkward right? Except it didn't get better for me. I'm not sure what it is but I couldn't or didn't think of anything to say. I thought it'd be so natural, just like writing all those messages. I've talked about my anxiety, selective mutism..I didn't realise it'd got this bad. All this time I thought I'd been getting better. How could I have been? I don't have friends...barely talk to anyone at college. 100% awkward. That meeting confirmed it. I just don't get it. I know I can talk, he does too. I just can't get over something, it's worse because I don't know exactly what it is. Is it really me or anxiety? We would sit or walk in utter silence. Obvious to others that we were a million miles apart as he said. I am frightened that he will stop talking to me. Maybe he thinks I'm a fake? What we have said to each other after that day has been very little. It's obvious that he's still feeling from that day. I want to get past this, go back. I desperately need help. Need to get better. Not just because of this but for my future. The mood groups do not help...Medicine? I don't want to fall for that but I don't see how cognitive behavioural therapy will help me. Will I need a specialist? I can't afford that. I'm a mess. Inside my head. Perhaps I'm just complaining too much. This is the worst it's ever been. I'm afraid I might do something stupid even though I'm completely against it. I just want to runaway. Nothing should be this hard for me or anyone else. Is this it..my life. I'm seriously contemplating about medicine.
I haven't posted a lot on this site but it's the only place I could write. That's all I seem to be good at. I can't speak. I want help. Good realistic advice, not sympathy. I just feel numb. Dead.
I haven't posted a lot on this site but it's the only place I could write. That's all I seem to be good at. I can't speak. I want help. Good realistic advice, not sympathy. I just feel numb. Dead.