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  1. nicola_maire

    cured after 8 years. no drugs or therapy.

    I have suffered with depression for years. about 8 now to be accurate. started because cannabis messed with how i saw the world for so long that the habbit was created and my head kind of stayed that way! biggest regret of mine that was. i stopped because of that though, evil stuff i would...
  2. nicola_maire

    Not a social phobic..but i am a weirdo apparently...

    I guess eventually you need to accept your weaknesses, embrace your strenghs and let go of the things you can no longer change. I believe that the problem with society these days, Is that there is a very small box of which is normal and desireable, and those of us who dont fit in end up...
  3. nicola_maire

    life in a hat

    i havnt come on here to preach judge or wateva, i found myself once in a simlilair situation. but why is it all you do i moan about ur negatives? and the only thing most of u reply to is 'who here feels like shit?' (no offense ment) i think maybe u need to realise that the clock dont stop...
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    ever think england has to much preasure on being social?

    i have a theory. do you ever think maybe we feel the way we do becasue england has this whole thing on clubbin drinkin social thing>? and inless your part of it you feel left out? its known thing about 70% of our nation is in a club on friday nights gettin wankered. it used to upset me that i...
  5. nicola_maire

    gettting nervous when people r wanting to befriend you?

    ive got this thing where when people r trying to get closer to me, or tbey think we beter mates than we are, i get scared n act all of putting. i know y i do it, but anyone get that?
  6. nicola_maire

    in love....social phobia holding me back,help!!

    ok i need big time advice, on all levels, social phobia and 'normal'. ok i started chattin to this lad online, he's 24, ive seen him on cam so i know he aint 60 or whatever,lol. we get on really well, and we find eachother attractive, he lives quite far away, he wanted to come to where i live to...
  7. nicola_maire

    need a sexual relationship, pissed of i aint in one

    what doesa girl need to do to get a mna these day? boys im lookin at u!
  8. nicola_maire

    take the journy with me (read on).....

    ok, now were all here for one reason, we dont wanna be ashy anymore, we've had enough? so what do we do, we do what we can to overcome it. now here's the plan. 1. list the things you dont like about your degree of shyness (lookin at floor vs running away) 2. list the things you want to change...
  9. nicola_maire

    telling it how it is, hard facts you should all be aware of

    first things first. my name is nicola (hi!) and ive been suffering with sp symptoms, but i could only be half diagnosed, so medicaly i havnt got it, so im semi 'normal'. so im just gonna do what im good at right here and bring you the facts. ok firstly i would like to say, stop beating yourslefs...
  10. nicola_maire

    setttting your self up to fail, do's and donts

    ok ive been flickin through the posts. i know some people cant be as strong for them selfs in this situations. but we all need to stop playin the poor victim, and im not victimising anyone, as playin the victim actually worsens the perception on the phobia. but ive heardb alot people sayin...
  11. nicola_maire

    everyone needs a inspirational story, so heres mine

    ok, to tell you the over all point first is that, im nearly (just abit to go) recovered from my social phobia. ok well ill try n make it short for ya'l. when i was 14/15 i reduced myself to cannabis related to depression, basicly becasue i had smoked it everyday, all day for 7-8 months, the...
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