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    Notes on not being the "nice guy"

    ok here are the notes i've been taking on the program to overcome the 'nice guy syndrome', which is a cd available on amazon.com. However, it's about $50 and that's discounted on sale. The actual price is $100 or something. This is an audio program for men, definitely love-shy men, trying to...
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    Oh HECK yes!

    So yesterday I realized I am really afraid to be romantic or flirty with women when around other people and that really totally made me anxious beyond anything. Just a few hours ago I just relaxed myself and pushed against it. I hit on a girl right in front of a bunch of new friends I just met...
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    still don't know what's inside me

    I have some issue with talking to women and people in general that's getting me and I'm still not sure what's up. Mostly with strangers but even in a group of friends I hesitate automatically. The other day I was trying to be proactive as I usual and I saw some girls walking by with Gryffindor...
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    Don't waste your life

    I'm 33, very close to 34 and only now have I realized how much I really lost out on youth and life. When I was around 24 I decided to turn my life around from being super shy and phobic to being positive. I flirted with girls, made myself a little less shy, etc. Basically lived my late 20s...
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    living with an embarrassing person

    I have a crazy problem. I have been with my girlfriend for years but she is strange. I am shy of course, but it's not just a case where she is outgoing and I'm not and it causes problems. I would be so lucky. No, the problem is my girlfriend is balls-out strange. Imagine being with someone that...
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    I screwed up big time...

    For an entire week I've been unable to do anything because I've been afraid of what I did to a dear friend of mine, and it all stems from my past of being shy and not having any self-esteem. I'm not sure how many of you have this or noticed this about us shy people, but we are so inwardly...
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    is it possible for this to just fade away?

    When I was younger I had all these symptoms.. when I was really young, about 5-8 I always thought an evil witch was watching me from somewhere and I had to do things or she'd hurt me. So I had to go back and turn a light on or off, or I had to go through a doorway the right way or I'd have to do...
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    who i am, what i did.. read it cuz i'm totally awesome

    nah, not awesome. But I'm long-winded so I'm going to try and shorten this as much as possible. stats: 33, male, asian-american, USA, in a relationship what's up with me: incredibly shy child, shy teen to adulthood. Was bullied for being ethnic minority which fueled a world-view that I wasn't...
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