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  1. recluse

    How can I stop being so sensitive?

    I live in fear every day, dreading that someone is going to say something because I am so sensitive to comments made about me. I'm so sensitive that when someone says something about me, even if it's just in a jokey way I often feel like crying, and I can never think of a comeback so I just sit...
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    Alone in KFC and not nervous!

    Yetserday I went to KFC and sat there eating alone and I did not feel nervous! I think that when I am tired I sort of forget about other people and I'm in my own world. I'm gonna try being tired more often!
  3. recluse

    Boo hoo

    :cry: I'm never going to get a girlfriend because I am weird. Everywhere I go girls just give me the cold shoulder and they all see me as weird, I know they do, I can tell by the way people look at me :cry:
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    Mumbling when nervous

    I fucking hate it when I am nervous....I can't speak! I start mumbling and I sound stupid. Usually I speak clearly when I am relaxed.
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    Taken out of normal enviroment makes me panicky

    Today at work I was sent out on site instead of my usual lab work, I don't know about anyone else but I get really uncomfortable when I am taken out of my normal enviroment and when I have strangers around me I feel really nervous and panicky. I'm a creature of routine really because that's how...
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    Paranoia about getting ganged up on

    Whenever there's a group of young people my age o'r younger walking towards me on the street o'r whatever I get really panicky. The same happens at work; I will avoid going into the office if I see a lot of people standing there talking. The thoughts I get is ''Shit they're going to laugh at...
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    Alone

    I'm going to be alone all my life I know it! I'm never going to get a girlfriend bacause I am afraid of girls more than anything. I am inept at socializing and I have no clue how to talk with girls. It's driving me nuts because I would treat a girl right but sadly with my social phobia I have no...
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    Saving money due to no social life

    Most young people spend their money on drinking, but I find this a waste of money. Instead I spend my money on my hobbies. I brought a sportscar a week ago and it's because I don't waste money on drinking and I don't smoke. That's one good thing about being social phobic; I don't socialize so I...
  9. recluse

    I feel unreal and fake

    I feel fake all the time. I put on this act that I am friendly and happy in front of my workmates and I feel shitty because I'm not really that friendly. I'm also sure that I am Bi-polar because of my mood shifts. Yesterday morning I was really hyper and I was talking really fast, because I felt...
  10. recluse

    Dreading work

    I'm dreading work again tomorrow, well I suppose everyone does :lol: But my reason is because of the guy I share rides to work with. I don't like him much and it's so awkward because I don't feel like talking to him and it's a 45 minute commute to work. I was happy before when I drove alone...
  11. recluse

    Loners seen as phsyco's

    Why do people seem to think that loners are all pshyco's? On the news they talk about ''the loner'' who shot up the school o'r whatever. I'm a loner but I would not hurt a fly.
  12. recluse

    Hypnotherapy

    Has anyone tried hypnotherapy?
  13. recluse

    Rejection

    Well I went with my sister to her friends wedding today. I was nervous at first but as soon as we got to the party in a hotel and I got some Jack Daniels and beer down my neck I loosened up. Things were going great and I was dancing the night away. One of the bridesmaids who was accompanied by a...
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    Going to a wedding not looking forwards

    I'm going to the wedding of my sisters friend tomorrow and I am not looking forwards. The last time I went to a wedding was when I was 13. I'll just have to wait untill the party so I can get drunk enough to be relaxed.
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    I feel guilty

    Because yesterday one of my workmates who's in his 40's was wearing funny trousers which made his arse look big and he wore them really high, so I mimicked him by pulling my jeans up high. I feel guilty for making fun of him. I think I have a split personality.
  16. recluse

    Do you blame your parents for your social phobia?

    I do. My parent don't love each other, and I don't think I ever remember them being in love. They are so cold towards each other, more like brother and sister rather than husband and wife, they split when I was doing my final school exams but got back together a few months later, and I don't...
  17. recluse

    impression shyness gives

    What impression do you think you give to people who don't understand what we are going through? Probably snobby, weird, boring. Why do people also think that shy quiet people are naive and gullible? I am far from these things.
  18. recluse

    I'm intimidated by everyone

    I'm intimidated by everyone whether they are family, workmates, people in shop qeue's, everyone! For instance when I am in a car with my workmate whom I share lifts to work with, I am so uneasy and can't think of anything to say and it doesn't help that I don't like him much as he has an...
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    Worst situation for s phobic to be in?

    What's the worst situation you feel you'r social anxiety would affect you in? A year ago I went fishing on a small boat for the first timne with one of my workmates. We went for a 24 hour fishing trip and slept on the boat. I hated it so much because I can't stand being in peoples company for a...
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    Social networking sites suck

    I'm a member of three social networking sites only because an old college friend invited me. These sites make me feel even more alienated and depressed because I see other people with huge lists of friends while I have 4 at the most. Also seeing their pictures makes me jealous because everyone...
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