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I have always felt that making conversation is a chore. I mean having to think of something to say just to pretend that i am happy, and to break silences. I can never make conversation out of nothing unless i have seen a film o'r something else which gives me a topic to discuss. other than that...

Let's face it; It's so much easier for a girl to get a boyfriend than the other way around isn't it. I notice that so many girls who are shy and social phobic are in relationships, so it can't be much of a disability for them can it? I think it's so much harder for shy/social phobic guys like me.

I'm feeling really hopeless and pessimistic. I feel so lonely and life just feels like a drag. I know i should be grateful for what i have but i just feel that i am going to work, eating and sleeping. I have nobody to do stuff with on weekends and besides that i live in a remote area, where you...

Why the f#ck do most guys treat women like a piece of meat? One o'r two guys i work with are always talking about the girls who work in the office in a degrading manner, and i'm sick and tired of listening to them going on about how ''she has t#ts you would want to bury your face in'' o'r...

Do girls want to be with a ''nice guy'', o'r is it true that most girls want to be with the ''Bad boy''?

I'm lonely yet when people text me on my mobile phone i read them but very often i will not reply, and sometimes my phone will ring and i'll switch the phone off to avoid talking to them. People are making an effort to be friends with me yet i push them away, because i don't feel worthy of...

I'm not being paranoid. The guy I drive with to work, he watches my every move! I've seen him through the corner of my eye looking at my facial expression, watching me driving, telling me what to do. When he is driving, he is in the habit of doing something stupid and nearly causes accidents...

Today at work i had to go to the office to get these foil trays which we use. Anyway i went to the storeroom picked up a big stack of them and started walking through the office back to my work place. A guy who works in the office(i've known him since starting at the company 5 years ago) asked...

I get really jealous when i see people out partying having a good time. When i drive through town at night i see all these people out drinking and socializing and i want to tell them all to go to hell, because i haven't the guts to socialize, i hate crowds of people because they make me nervous...

I know i may sound ungratefull but i'm embarassed about being seen with my parents. Things like going around shops, going for meals, going to the cinema, i'm always ashamed because i'm 26 years old and most people have their own lives at a much younger age, and i always feel that people are...

Whenever i have to walk o'r even drive past a group of chavs hanging around i feel really nervous, i mean they are just kids but i always feel like they are going to shout something at me and pick a fight o'r something. Why do they have to hang around outside shops and stuff making a nuisance of...

Why do i have to be the oddball? Everyone i know of go out and have fun with a gang of friends. On Facebook other people have hundreds of friends while i'm this loner. Even the 'geeks' who were in school have interesting lives and go partying. I have no interesting stories to tell about my life

I do. Five years ago this girl who i had feeling for said that she loved me and would never forget me (as a friend as she is engaged) anyway after a few months of hanging around she got more distant. I spent months helping her with her university art work for her final year. In the final year...

I'm becoming even more withdrawn as winter is coming. I wasn't very social anyway but now i absolutely have no desire to talk to people. Help my days at work feel long now.

I think i am using the excuse that i am shy to avoid having friends. I don't know how i can explain this but i can't be bothered to make the effort to better my social phobia to find friends. On the whole i find people to be draining but also i am painfully lonely and depressed. I have...

My depression is getting worse as winter is coming. I already have more difficulty getting out of bed because it's dark all the time. The thing that's mainly making me depressed is my loneliness, and there's no point in advicing me to ''Join a club'' o'r ''go to church'' because my loneliness is...

Where can a loner like me find a girlfriend? I don't really like night clubs, o'r pubs so I'm stuck. Then again I don't want to meet a drunk girl.

How come I feel more at ease with some people while others make me feel nervous? I share rides to work with this guy and he makes me feel really nervous all the time. I feel that our personalities clash. He makes me feel so nervous I feel like puking at times. I feel like he watches every move I...

How come I look at video blogs of social anxiety sufferers on youtube and they can talk confidently on them? I could never do that because I hate hearing my own voice. The same goes to people who do voice chats on msn, I tried once but I couldn't speak, I froze because I felt so awkward.

Isn't it a sad thing that my only true friend was my cat. She used to wake me up every morning, snuggle up to me whenever i was down, untill she died 4 years ago. Her death hit me harder espacially as she died in my arms (all my other cats have disapeared somewhere to die), now I have no one :(...