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  1. LazyHermitCrab

    how long does it take you to write an email?

    I just spent about over an hour replying to an email checking and rechecking. When I sent it I held my breathe and out loud said, "you can do this." It takes too long. I wanna be able just to answer back instead of taking a long time and sometimes I sound like a robot writing back to make sure...
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    what language to take at college?

    I've been avoiding taking a language at college, but I have to or I won't graduate. I took French wayyyy back in high school and the teacher made me feel so awkward (good ole memories). I was thinking of taking Chinese, because I think my handwriting is good and I know how to say hi and write...
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    lack of privacy

    I've come to find that close relationships means less privacy. I have an amazing boyfriend/fiancé and I think we will be together for many years. I just have this issue with having someone looking at what I do online. I do look up stuff online that I wouldn't want everyone to see. I'd never...
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    people won't play "ruff" with me

    nothing.......................lol :)
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    no matter what anyone says?

    mmmm nvm :)
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    what do you think happens when we die?

    Please explain with detail if you can.
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    you can come if you want?

    You're right OceanMist. :p
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    you can come if you want?

    You can come if you want? What does it mean? Just obsessing, blah.
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    Visual Snow

    Does anyone have "visual snow" like me? Sometimes I think it was caused by anxiety. I suddenly had it as a kid when i was up really late fearing "something scary in the dark." Suddenly it appeared. I think it's really rare. It's like seeing static from the tv all the time. I got used to it now...
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    How old do you feel?

    I'm 22 but it's hard for me to relate to people around my age. I get along better with people overall in their late 30s or so. I like cartoons and videogames and stuff, so kids like me usually, but the other "stuff" i don't understand/find boring/etc which is interesting to the around in the 20s...
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    awkward having different political beliefs

    How do you handle situations when you disagree with someone on political beliefs? I try my best to avoid talking about it, but when i'm asked directly what it is and i disagree with that person it causes problems. It hurts a lot especially if it's someone i really care about. I haven't lost...
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    trying to look brave

    Have you ever tried to take control of something and be in the lead? Well i tried to take someone to a college club and we ended up getting lost because of me, he kept saying "stop being shy", got awkward eye contact with people, and short conversations. :( I could write a show like "Crub your...
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    should i ask to meet this person?

    Well i'm having a lot of trouble making friends :/ I'm not looking for a lot but 5 in the area is my goal. Right now i have 2 but we only hang out once a month. The only hope i have is this person i met on this friendship finding site. I usually don't end up meeting people there. The one i was...
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    not invited to wedding

    one of my boyfriends best friends is getting married and asked my boyfriend to be a groomsman. We've been dating for almost 2 years and he didn't say if i was invited so i'm assuming no. i feel really bad right now :( is this a normal occurance? :( my friend who i haven't seen in 2 years invited...
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    people in the uk

    Chocolate tea You should try this tea; it's so good. I live in the US and miss it lol. Tea is awesome :)
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    one of my coworkers ignores me

    Even if it's just me and him, he won't even say hi back. I don't like working with him at all. He talks to other coworkers though. He's only 20 so maybe that's why. It's just like he won't even look at me like i'm invisible. I don't say hi anymore because it's pointless. I'm not even trying to...
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    preparing voice for public

    You probably run into this problem like me. For example sometimes I don't go into work until late and don't talk to anyone all day before that. When I get to work I sound really low voiced, etc. Now before work I sing the abc's really loud to excercise my voice and it helped my voice at work a...
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    no complain day

    Okay this might sound funny but i made a no complain day once a week. It's a day where you don't complain lol. My dad tried it and it made the day a lot better cuz he usually tells me to do stuff and complains about work but not if it's the special day. I challenge everyone on here to try it...
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    is this romantic or creepy?

    Hey my bf and i couldn't hang out today but i was gonna swing by and leave valentine stuff on his car. This is so he could wake up and see it tomorrow and then i'll give him more stuff tomorrow. My mom said it was a waste of time so i'm confused? What do you think? :/
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    how does one ask about transfering in work

    I dislike my job, however the pay is great for a grocery store. People transfer stores sometimes, and I want to ask to transfer. I'm just afraid because i'm not moving, so they might say no? It's because of personal relationship reasons. I don't know how to ask? This has to be done or I will...
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