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when im with people my age its ok. with my friends its fiine. but when ive got a one to one with a teacher or when im walking along a crowded street its really really bad. im constantly thinking 'where shall i look where shall i look'' with teachers its so bad they stare at your eyes and i cant...

I think I may have social phobia, although I'm not sure. I will list my symptoms and tell me what you think: - Huge fear of reading aloud in class, if there's ever the slightest hint that I have to do it; heart starts pounding, shaky etc. In the past I have avoided school because of this. -...

I'm getting fed up having nobody to go on holiday with so would like to go off somewhere abroad by myself. I really want to see the world but SA is stopping me from going anywhere. The thing is, because I have SA and all, I'm really anxious about lots of things. I don't like the idea of having...

How does shyness effect men differently form the way that it effects women? Are shy men weaker than non shy women? Please explain in detail to both points

Hey guys. This is a problem that has been plaguing me for quite some time. I have SA really badly and when I am in a social situation which is rarely, I shut down, and when I am talking to the person I will just say the first thing that comes to mind. Is this normal, or in the back of my mind...

wow! i had social phobia for 8 years! finally today, i met a girl up and in my head i had these new thoughts, i asked myself: ''is it worth it? is the gain worth the rejection? and i imagined the gain, the excitement i would have being around this girl!'' and boom! i asked her number! and my...

tell me something. Everyone probably has something theyre ashamed of...so tell me everyone. what are your personal everyday shames? whatever it is...personel, sexual desires, rather your lazy at home, ashamed of your academics, poor performer, your weight, the way you talk, etc... SO WHAT ARE...

i was just supposed to go and see a counsellor in college an i didnt go, i dun even no why i missed it last week as well..I feel like fucking shit right now why the hell didnt i go? That woman (who came in especially to see me) wont be bothered with me now and why should she. My life is gonna...

I've been struggling w/ social-anxiety for about a year now. It started w/ depression and then manifested into a phobia of social situations and let me just say it fuckin sucks! But I'm 18, I gotta go to college and I'm sick and tired of feeling like crap around other people so I'm starting to...

iv really had enough, im not so much shy anymore but i am very very social phobic, i get fidgety and anxious in peoples company and i feel they are judgin me all the time, so i close off and wish i was alone. iv had a girl wanting to be my mate, like we wer to meet up once a week and be girlie...

Hi,I've just started Dr. Richards tapes.got them Yesterday,they seem to be very focused on SA.At the start he talks about his own SA and gives some examples,like how he wouldn't go outside if he thought his neighbours would be there,as he couldn't face having to talk with them.How he would be...

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Hi, was wondering if you people are critical of others as much as yourself. Altough, i hate being like that. but yes, sometimes, i go out, and i see people. and im like...?, who da hell do they think they are..they suck. theyre so ugly. etc.....

Hi, if I asked yall what is your moms and dads birthdate. do you know?? i was so ambarassed today, when someone asked me that, and I cant remember or I didnt even know. I wonder sometimes if maybe all I care about is myself.

just wondering if there was some1 in San Antonio Texas that wanted 2 talk to eachother or meet up somewhere, it would b kinda cool 2 b friends with some1 that is going what im going thru. thank u. MY E MAIL IS>>>>>> [email protected]. by the way this is a very cool site. love ya !!

Tell me something people. How do you act in chat rooms. im sure 100 percent of you chat in chat rooms like msn and yahoo. so how do you act? do you act shy? normal? or immature?

well first of all i just want to say hello to everyone and happy new year. I desperatly need advice on something, and what better place to ask than here. Well this is my story. I recently went to Mexico to my parents hometown. The time i was their, my mom introduced me to a girl, well soon...

Any of you ever fell down and hit your head against the floor. I did when i was in 3rd grade, falling from a tree. and later on when i played basketball. I wonder if those contributed to my socialphobia, memory problems. please let me know. thanks yours truly.

Hi, as a researcher in social phobics, i have uncovered someting quite intriguing. It was found that 98 percent of our 60 social phobics have: 1. alot nicer with other people then they are with their own families. 2. their mothers love doing way too much for them. 3. deep down, they are very...

If you have any job. :roll: I have no idea what kind of job is more or less comfortable for people with social phobia or avoidant personality disorder. I used to be a tutor.