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For me it came from my mental illness. Besides depression and anxiety what other mental illness do you have? Were you diagnosed with depression and anxiety? If it is too personal you don't have to answer. But do you instill confidence from yourself now? I try too but it is hard for me.

Which thread is that? I still have issues with eye contact as well. Was this in response to me?

So you have no trouble approaching people you don't know? Oh that's good to know you are not judgmental.

Mine comes from my problem, do you think it might of came from an mental illness? You're saying confidence instilled in you rarely came from your family? Why is it an uphill battle?

That's good! What helped you approaching people online or in real life? You don't think what way? That you can approach people in irl or online.

Why do you have an monotone voice? I think my appearance plays a role as well. I think if we both instill confidence in ourselves we can approach people. Also get where we want to appearance wise. It is not going to be easy though.

I haven't been here in a long time. Is anybody very afraid of of approaching people to make friends or for conversations in irl and online? I'm very afraid as I think I will get rejected or they won't want to talk to me especially the opposite gender tbh. It doesn't help that I'm not the best...

I realized recently that I get a lot of help but I don't try to help myself :kickingmyself:. Maybe it is my low motivation or the more anxiety I will invite into my life if I help myself. Or it is that my life will totally change and I'm scared of the unknown. Any advice?

So recently I have been bored during the day and night. I don't do the things I use to do due to anxiety, fear of the unknown, low motivation, and fear. But what I was doing before and what I'm going to do is not recommended so idk what to do for activities that take up most of the day. Keep in...

Well there is this site where you message people, and I try to message people but people don't respond to me a lot. Idk if it is because I might of got hacked or it is my social skills. This also applies to other sites as well except the hacked part. But it is really frustrating to me...

I don't if my account is hacked or disabled because my account been logging out very quickly lately like for example if I click home it logs off. What should I do? I already contacted socialphobiaworld.

Recently a girl online that I been talking to asked me if I want to text with her and I'm very scared. I'm scared because I have a lot of things I don't want people to know or dark secrets such I have low motivation etc.. Basically I am scared not just with her but other non sa or avpd people of...

There is a guy at my volunteer place that I feel inferior to because he flirts with girls and get girl's phone numbers (I think at least) and for another reason (I am to scared to say). It also has to do with me not talking to girls in person and he is able to do it easily, plus my possible avpd...

I'm really nervous and anxious because this girl I contacted on this site, idk if she will answer me because I left a comment one of her photos complimenting or flirting (idk if it is flirting by saying you have a nice smile and you're pretty) and engaged in casual conversation with her. The...

I saw this girl at where I volunteer and she was cute and she ask me questions to get help and I answered them. I got mad as she left because she was attractive and the kind of girl I liked and I let her get away. Then later she smiled at me when I looked at her and then I really kicked myself...

I like you very much, but I know you have boyfriend and I can't have you even if you were single. But just want to let you know I like you and your very attractive, I hope this doesn't mess things up.

This might seem controversial but I like 2 girls. It's frustrating because one of them I can't have and I see her at least once every month or two. I do talk to her but not conversationally. And the other one well I'm to afraid to talk to her and don't see her as often and irl. The problem is...

On this site i go on where you send messages to people and can write on a forum, lately the new people and two people i talked to for a long time haven't responding to me even people :(. I understand people are busy and everyone doesn't respond right away but the two people i talked too for a...

What is the difference between Avpd and Sad? Because i think i have Avpd because my social anxiety seems very severe and plus i have a monotone and slow voice. Idk....

Does anybody want their life to end whenever something really bad happens to them? Because I feel that way all the time :sad: