Megaten
Well-known member
I would have at one time been the first person to argue against such a claim, but if anything the last few months and now my new job has taught me is that it's dangerous to be nice to someone at first meeting. Being nice tells people they can find a way to either screw you around or not take you seriously. Eventually you're going to either have to put them in their place or cut them off. Very few people respond in kind to a genuinely nice attitude. If history has taught us anything its that people that are feared for what they might do were much more powerful than those coming in with open arms. What do you think? Im hoping for someone to convince me otherwise because Im very close to being jaded by humanity and ready to treat them how they deserve to be.