I'm Still Alive

gazelle

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I'm sorry about your situation... have you ever tried contemplating about the exact factors that might have lead you to these lucky breaks ex: doing a particular activity in that phase of your life or having a specific change in your diet?
 

Srijita52

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I'm sorry you're feeling like this but you're not a failure! Atleast you're trying to fulfill your dreams so that's something and if you keep trying things will improve even if it seems hopeless right now. Don't give up.
 

ImNotMyIllness

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@ Gazelle My lucky breaks have been joining a Fraternity in college, finding a girlfriend (although it didn't work out) and that's about it.Also, when I have a job, I tend to become very busy and preoccupied. But, none of the jobs have been right for me. They're always in something like sales.
I'm going to try to get into something more aligned with my talents, if I don't succumb to another depressive episode. I just don't have the energy..................I'm spent!
 

ImNotMyIllness

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I'm sorry you're feeling like this but you're not a failure! Atleast you're trying to fulfill your dreams so that's something and if you keep trying things will improve even if it seems hopeless right now. Don't give up.

Trust me, I'm a total loser. Living with my parents, with no girlfriend or job.
 

Lamb

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Trust me, I'm a total loser. Living with my parents, with no girlfriend or job.

Hey, does that make me a loser too??

Lol. Should add i can also contemplate suicide but am the first one to try and run to save somebody else. Hang in there buddy
 

ImNotMyIllness

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Hey, does that make me a loser too??

Lol. Should add i can also contemplate suicide but am the first one to try and run to save somebody else. Hang in there buddy

No. Definitely not! Maybe, I feel like this because I'm a guy. I've been brought up in a traditional home where the guy has to succeed and be all that to find a nice wife.

How am I going to find a wife?...Being a loser? A woman without a job is fine. Guys don't mind. But, for a man, women look at that.

.........I'm a poor excuse for a man if I can't even support myself.
 

ImNotMyIllness

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I'm not even a good looking guy. I'm average. So, this is a pretty big issue. No woman will ever want me.


*Probably below average. But, I'm funny and have a great personality, I like trying new things. I'm always up for fun and adventure.
 
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Lamb

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No. Definitely not! Maybe, I feel like this because I'm a guy. I've been brought up in a traditional home where the guy has to succeed and be all that to find a nice wife.

How am I going to find a wife?...Being a loser? A woman without a job is fine. Guys don't mind. But, for a man, women look at that.

.........I'm a poor excuse for a man if I can't even support myself.



I have a feeling this is going to sway into another topic. To post here or pm you..hmmm.
 

WishingICould

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What are you trying? Not being condescending or anything, but I'm just curious. :) At least you're attempting to change your life, even if it's minor changes.

That's a good point. I have a bad habit of saying i hate my life but not doing much to change it. Maybe because i don't know how.
 
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